The 21 Year Old Virgin

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I just wanted to talk alittle about relationships,and being a virgin at the age of 21.

To me sex is not one of the biggest parts of a relationship and alot of people think so,the reason I say it isnt is because I would not have had no relationships in my life is that is the case.I was on the phone with one of my male friends last night and he stated that basically all my relationships are like me and my boyfriends are basically friends and I was like "no,we were in a relationship". He went on to say that well we wasnt havin sex so basically it was and I had to ask him a few ? to get the anger off my chest. Me being in a relationship consists of emotions to and emotions dont just come from sex. I just want to encourage all the virgins out there that just because you are in a relationship with someone dont mean you have to have sex with them. Going back to the Bible,you dont supposed to have sex then get married "NO" you supposed to get married then have sex.The reason I said that is because some people dont think relationships can work without sex,and I am here to tell you they can;and if they couldnt then sex would have came before marriage.Now alot of peole have sex with eachother and they are not in a relationship they just want to " do the grown up". Dont get me wrong I am not huge,unattractive,and all the things some people may think,actually I am five two in a half , I weigh 125 and I am brown skinned and I am a pretty attractive young women but to be real with you the inside of me is way more beautiful than the outside. So I hope this blog will encourage someone whos a virgin to keep it locked, or someone whos not a virgin to not just based your relationship on sex because you can get sex from anybody.

 

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