I still find it puzzling when something good happens to someone there dearest and closest A BFF is you will can't rejoice too.
It's almost the Gossip Girl Complex. The Blair & Serena disorder. One can't or isnt' suppose to outshine the other nor are they suppose to compete for the same territory . But what do you do when the thing you got and worked hard at is something she snubbed and belittled but now that you've achieved it she wants to be catty and spread false rumors and just being mean. Then when your around smile in your face when your around. But you can obviously feel that the mood has changed the vibe changed.
The frienemies complex seen between Paris/Nicole and other great ladies but i wonder why do we work so hard to tear someone make the feel bad , to kill there joy. Especially as women and female why we tear at each other. I mean wouldn't supporting each other be easier and more productive? I mean sure that good thing may not be happening to you but to your friend at the moment. Why put negative energy out there toward her and surround yourself in that dark cloud that ends up blocking the next good thing that could happen to you and then turn the tables and have you both in a place of happiness.
it seems ridiculous to continue a cycle that. And especially if it is a friend that before whatever happened to either one was a good friend.
