Ever heard the cheater cocks blow their horn when they get caught. Most of them plead and cry for forgiveness, the very few brainy foxes shoot mind boggling questions that really make us rethink beliefs that we grew up with, which obviously we otherwise don bother contemplating about. (And here i use the cock and fox as a general term for both the sexes ) Well I stepped out of the society into my space, no not the virtual social self marketing website, but the one inside me. Being a cunning cheater or a paragon 'cheated' lover, some common questions arise...
Cheating partners are the biggest turn-off. Why does the need for cheating arise anyways? Why should it be a problem if the partner is doing something which makes him or her happy? People lie out of fear of unacceptability, why can't one accept that he or she cannot fulfill all the needs? Why should one compromise? Why can't we not be jealous of sharing our partner? They are separate individuals after all and have full right to be with someone else when they don mind it themselves. Why should we submit to society or religion when ones life is ones own to do whatever they want to with it?
Bringing in the twist...
The why-why list can go on and on. All these question raise because we think it is jealousy, ego, selfish love and all the negative emotions that make us hate polygamy or poly-gf(don kno if they hav a term for that...)
Simply put, things mess up when one is impatient (if not desperate) to get into a relationship. A lot of things are overlooked due to this, we just see the flowery goodness in others and the relationship at hand. Then ultimately the spark dies down and we see all the highlighted missing elements. At that point it depends from person to person what decision they take. Whether they compromise, move on, cheat, call off, convince the other or whatever they do...
I say patience is the key. And this thing "one person cannot satisfy every need", I'll ask that aloud when I get too lazy to work towards applying my brains or body towards finding alternatives for the partners need.
All along i did not think of those who just aim at scoring chicks or chickas because they firmly believe " life is a game", "Live for the moment", "Only birth and death matter, rest in between is forgotten", et al
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