Divorced parents

My Parents when i was at the age of like 4 went through a divorce. I think that is one of many hard things that a lot of both young and older kids face in today's society. It is amazing as to how many kids say that their parents are divorced. Most kids that you talk to anymore come from a broken family. It is intresting though because different people go through the divore differently. Some kids come out of the divorce being strong and better people than what they might have been if their parents had chosen to stay together. Other people, looking at it from the other view, are messed up for the rest of their life and end up having all these problems and social issues and what not. Is divorce really that hard to go through? For me it was not that bad, it happened when i was little so i kind of just grew up around having divorced parents so i saw it as being natural, like that was the way that things were supposed to be. It amazes me though that it should not be like that at all. A lot of people say that you cant be happy if your parents are not together. I think that is completly wrong, i understand why my parents cant be together and i accept that fact and i lead a very good life. I guess it depends on your personality as to how you coupe with different things or should i say hardships in your life. I have come to the place in my life where i can talk about it openly and not feel hurt inside, which has actually come to benefit many other people. I have talked a numerous amount of my friends through the same expirence and we have all turned out to be great people. so from my conclusion just because i may have a bit of a messed up home situation, i still have just as good of a life as those that still have parents that are together.

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