Why is it whenever I hear a conversation, I hear, "is he black? is she white?" why does it matter? Everyone looks at me and they see a thick black woman who carries herself well. But when i tell someone who im interested in, they say, " he's not your race" DUHHH!! i dont get why people look at someone's race first.
It was my sophomore year and i liked my best friend, he was sweet, funny, cute, nice, everything i was looking for in a guy. and well everybody was like, " why aren't you looking at no brothers?" " you too good for black men?" and it just pissed me off! My best friend was white and i didn't look at him because he was white or black, i looked at him because of who he was.
I was at work and i liked someone i worked with. He was just in my age limit, so i was going to go for it. I confided in my guy friend who works with me as well. And he says, "he's weird" you know i thought it was just because of his personality. SO im like "OK". Then he says, nah...weird because he not like you." i said "why? how he not like me, i know he not a girl but how is he not like me?" LOL but he continued to compare whites to black, about the music we are supposed to listen to, some of things we are supposed to say, the clothes we are supposed to were, etc. It was wrong.
Why does this happen when black women go for something....Maybe you've noticed it too.
When a black guy goes with a white girl... (not attacking anyone...just making a point) no one says anything. But when a black girl is interested in a white guy or someone other than the black race. Here comes everyone with there own two cents. "whats wrong with the brothers?" "why don't you stay in your race?" "you going for the white meat?" its so stupid, most of the time hypocritical, and just uhhhhh!
Now im going to set the record straight... I was one of the girls that did not like the black guys going with white girls. When i was young as hell. I sometime still see just retarded couples, but not because of their race, but because of who they are. But I thought, "why in the hell do they always go for the white women instead of a black woman?" now i dont care.... and i couldnt care less...and i still dont know the answer to that question nor do i want to.
My sister's boyfriend is really talkative...he goes on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on...well you get the picture. But everytime i come home from work, he asks, " how was work?" i say, " it was work" because that is exactly what it was~ Work! LOL but he'll go on... " did you meet somebody at work?" ill say yes or no...if i say yes... he says, " oh really is he white or black...oh who is he?" wouldnt that be agrrivating.. so now i try to avoid him at all costs!LOL
My sisters boyfriend goes on and on about how this is wrong and that is wrong and this is what God is going to do and that is what God is going to do...but then he turns right around and does things that are not HOLY! that pisses me off! he judges people that are gay... date outside their race... and just likes he holier than thou... i really wish someone would lay into him. Its wrong to judge someone, by sexuality, race, sex, job, home place, or anything...you can only judge someone when there wearing a really bad wig...JK! no judging! LOL
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