So I figured I should right something because I have read some blogs about it and some really rubbed me the wrong way. I am 19 going to be a sophomore in college next fall and I have been happily dating my boyfriend Dustin for a year. We started dating in April of our senior year in high school and yes we have had sex. We were both virgins at the when we started dating, we are each others first and I see nothing wrong with us having sex. Having sex is a human thing there is nothing wrong with it.
I have been reading some blogs that say you have no morals if you have premarital sex. First I have a lot of morals. My family are really big catholics and I am the only one in my family that does not believe in the catholic church. When my mom found out that we were having sex she told me that I was going to go to hell for having premarital sex. I really don't see the big deal about it, If you can trust the person your dating with this huge step in your relationship and you feel comfortable about giving yourself to someone then do it. I know some people don't believe in premarital sex but that doesn't give you a reason to say your going to hell, or you have no morals. I mean I know the times are different but back in the 30's parents married there children off when they were 14-15 years old and they get married to person who probably more thant 10 years older and have children at 16. I mean how is that any different. I mean maybe 16 is to young to have sex but when you 18 and older no one should say your to young or your not ready. Scientifically when you have your first period your body is ready for sexual intercourse but really the only person who can say that they are ready for sex is yourself not you parents,scientist, or your friends.
I feel that there is nothing wrong with premarital sex I love my boyfriend and for people to say when you have premarital sex you have no morals that just makes me mad.
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