Relationships and sex!?!?!?!?!?!?

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Ok just a random thought i would talk about is realtionships and sex . . . . Ok this mainly got brought up because the person i am with didnt want to have sex unless we were dating and even if we were still didnt want to have sex which i completley understood . . . Then they asked me if i could date someone and not have sex with them. . . . . well . . . it may be wrong but i said i could for a while. . . . I think you have to have a sexual attraction to someone and have a good sex life for a relationship to work. . . . i can see not have a active sex life if both of the people werent into sex, but i dont think i could date someone and not have sex with them at some point. . . . Im not saying put out the first date or even in the first month. To me i think i could go a couple months without getting a little frustrated .. . . maybe its just me and its wrong but that is just the way i am. But i love the person i am with and we did have sex on the first date but still we are engaged now so just goes to show you that its not always wrong to have sex right off the bat LOL . . .The main reason they didnt want to have sex is because they didnt want to base the relationship off sex which i really respect and get it its makes perfect since. No the religon side . . . I planned on saving myself until marriage . . i am catholic. . . but it just didnt happen that way i found someone that i loved and trusted with everything, not with them anymore but i still trust this person today and she is my best friend. Well i kinda just wont some feedback to see other peoples opinions on this. Could you have a relationship with someone and not have a sex life with them? . . . . Would you get frustrated? . . . . . Do you believe you can have a relationship with someone and not be sexually attracted to them?

Thanks :) have a great day peace

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