This past winter, I had an internship in New York City with a non-profit organization that brings arts programs into NYC public and private schools. I commuted into the city Monday through Friday, traveling on the train by myself, taking the subway, etc. Going into this situation, I was scared out of my mind! Living the life of a "grown-up" was a daunting task. What happened during my time traveling in and out of the city? I discovered what a difference being NICE makes in your daily life.
By the end of my 7 week internship, I got so tired of seeing the rush of black coats just brush past me in the train station. People gave dirty looks when you bumped into them and apologized, people gave dirty looks when you offered to let them go through the turnstile before you, people were just miserable all of the time! It got to a point where I was becoming just as miserable, and was shocked to hear someone even say "Gazuntite" to a fellow passenger on the train.
One day I left work early because I didn't feel well and was folded over onto my lap while sitting on the subway. Imagine my surprise when the small woman sitting next to me actually asked if I was all right! And before we got off of the train, she turned around and told me to have a good day. It may seem silly, but this is one of the nicest interactions I've ever had with another person. She cared about someone else besides herself, unlike so many of those other anonymous faces who had passed by me that afternoon, and her concern was genuinely touching.
New York City is a big and scary place, and it has taught me to be a nicer person. So tomorrow, why don't you try smiling at someone as you pass them on your way out the door? Or telling the cashier at the grocery store to have a nice day? I guarantee that it'll make them feel good, and it'll make you feel even better.
Being nice is underrated.
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