So I got into a debate the other day on whether or not you are sexier when you're dating some one. I, at first, didn't think so. People can't find you hotter when you're dating some one: you look exactly the same! Plus, especially if it's a stranger, how can you know if some one is taken or single? So basically, we spent half our debate debating what we were debating about. (huh?) ...hehe.
So rephrase: Do you exhibit more confidence when you are dating some one, and therefore, appear sexier?
I think it's a YEAH. I am very much taken, and now more than ever am I possessed by the feeling that I could date anyone I want. Obviously this is not true, but I feel great. Wa-bam. I love looking at a hot girl and thinking, "You want me and you know it."
But then again, this is just how I feel about myself, not necessarily how others feel about me. Maybe I act just the same, and I just feel hot. How confusing is that? You have to love Cooley's Looking Glass Self...
So how about everyone else? What do you think? Are you more confident when you're dating some one? And could this be a big thing for people who only date married men/women (not cool)? Are you more attracted to people who are already spoken for?
And what about the possible conundrum for the dateless? You need a gf/bf to get a gf/bf.....can you say catch-22?















