WHY DO MEN ALWAYS SEEM TO FEEL LIKE THEY ARE IN CHARGE!?!?!? WHY DO THEY HAVE THIS IMAGE IN THEIR HEADS AND ALL WOMEN HAVE TO BECOME IT OR BE CRITICIZED!
OKAY, SO AS IVE PROBABLY MENTIONED IN EVERYTHING THAT IVE WRITTEN, I'M BLACK AND I HAVE AN AFRO AND IT'S NOT A JERRY CURL OR ANYTHING STYLISH IT’S JUST AN AFRO. PEOPLE ALL THE TIME ASK ME, “WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR HAIR?" “WHY DID YOU CUT YOUR HAIR OFF?" “DIDN’T YOU HAVE BRAIDS A WHILE AGO?" "WHERE DID YOUR HAIR GO?" YOU GET THE POINT. WELL ONE GUY ASKED “WHY DID YOU CUT YOUR HAIR OFF?" NOW I CAN DEAL WITH THAT BECAUSE I GET ASKED ALL THE TIME, BUT THE THING THAT SENT ME OVER THE EDGE IS THE FACT THAT HE SAID, “THAT’S NOT VERY LADYLIKE!" I MEAN WHERE DOES HE GET OFF TELLING ME WHATS LADYLIKE? DO I TELL HIM HOW TO ACT LIKE A MAN.? HE WAS JUST A GAS STATION ATTENDANT, NOT TO PUT DOWN GAS STATION ATTENDANTS, BECAUSE I AM ONE. BUT I NEVER SPEAK TO THIS GUY EXCEPT TO TELL HIM WHAT I WANT!!
so many men nowadays (NOT ALL) are trying to get women to get back in the kitchen and to get them back to the point where they have nothing to do except where an apron all day and say, " have a good day at work honey"
TOTALLY OFF SUBJECT, BUT THERE IS THIS SHOW CALLED "CASHMERE MAFIA" AND IT IS REALLY GOOD, ITS ABOUT FOUR FRIENDS WHO ARE REALLY SUCCESSFUL AND TRUE FOXES AND EVERYTHING. I HAVE HEARD MEN PUT THIS SHOW DOWN BECAUSE IT WILL MAKE WOMEN WANT TO WORK MORE AND NOT FUFILL THEIR BORN ROLES AS “HOMEMAKERS". IT HAS TAKEN ALL THE STRENGTH TO NOT KNOCK A MAN OUT BECAUSE OF THAT.
But anyway there are so many men (AGAIN NOT ALL OF THEM) that have been trying to get women into this IDEAL WOMAN FIGURE! I have been told that I have a nice butt, and all that stuff. But then they take it too far and say I need to have the nice flowing hair to top it off. There are plenty of beautiful women out there with short and even no hair whatsoever and people continue to judge them. I've been called a lesbian and bisexual and it was by a preacher, because of my short hair. I also have an athletic built body and people have just all of a sudden think that I work out or that i'm into girls. There is nothing wrong with that, why do I have to feel bad every time someone asks me about my hair? When I go somewhere people always ask me if I have a wig at home. Why do I have to have hair to be considered pretty? It’s stupid! BUT WHY DO WOMEN HAVE TO HAVE HAIR TO BEAUTIFUL?
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