I am going to be 18 in a couple of months and I am still a virgin. Most of my friends have not had sex. The ones who did it have had problems with every relationship whenever sex is involved. The ones who have not have had better luck with their relationships. One of my closes friends had sex when she was a freshman in high school and has had sex with most of her boyfriends since then. lets just say she has a lot of issues.
I am not waiting for religious purposes since I am an Athiest. I am not even sure if I am going to wait until I am married. Though sometimes I feel like thats the best answer. Every person I have known who has had sex has had their relationships fail and I think having sex has something to do with it. It just makes things so complicated. But at the same time how am I supposed to know being a virgin and all. It is just so frustraiting.
It seems like less and less people are waiting until they are married to have sex because it seems almost pointless, but at the same time is it pointless to wait?
Pros to waiting
- I will not get pregnaut
- I will not get an STD
- I wont have complications that go along with having sex
- Will not be called a slut
- More respected..sometimes (some dont care)
Cons to waiting
- Will not be experienced
- I cant think of any more im sure there are more
I am just not sure if I even want to have sex before im married but I am not fully opposed to the idea I mean if I am with someone for a long time it might happen. I just wish I knew if it is worth it. I dont want to have sex with just anyone and I dont want to end up like a lot of my friends who have been screwed over in relationships after they had sex.
sorry if this is a confusing blog it feels like my brain
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