While riding in the car with my fiance, he asks the infamous question" Why is it women want men to pay the bills and be the provider for everything but they don't want to cook,and clean all the time?He is best refering to back in the time era where men went to work, paid the bills, and paid just about everything else.Women would stay at home and cook, clean and take care of the kids. The way the new generation is now is very different. Most women expect the man to pay the bills, pay their individual bills, give them money. Some women that work feel like when they get off work they are also tired and don't feel like cooking and cleaning. This is why we have maid service and fastfood places for. Majority of men complain about paying the bills but still pay them , want to be lazy , and want a mother figure to be at home to cook, clean , and take care of the kids.The perfect world of living a stress free and happy life with your spouse or lover would be :The man pays the bills, the women steps in here and there to help him out with the bills and if he gets behind on a bill, she pays the whole bill instead of telling him "So what are you gonna do then?The bill has to get paid somehow and its not coming out of my pocket."The women could cook on certain days and the days that she doesn't cook her man can cook. Cleaning the house could become a shared responsibility. Taking care of the kids should always be a shared responsibility no matter what. To sum it all up everyone should be playing fair instead of twisting the rules towards their satisfaction.















