Abusive Relationships Ever since 9th grade it has come to my attention the mistakes, or what i consider mistakes, that some girls make. There's some girls that want to be in a relationship, but the problem is that they don't really date, they just want to have that feeling of being loved. At first it does seem like that but once they are with the "right" guy everything changes. The guys starts changing, sometimes like in this case they show their jealousy and the abusiveness. The next mistake is still staying in the relationship after the things that have happened. They think that they cant find another person out there better than who they're with, but they're wrong, there's someone out there that can treat you way better. The guy starts to hit the girl more and more, but the girl still wont let him go, then the biggest mistake is when they dont do anything about it, they dont tell anybody. Which as a result, they end up dead. Girls need to be careful with who they get in a relationship with, it may seem like the right guy, but sometimes its not. Teens these days need to date, and see how the person they think they want to be with is the right one, get to know them, and dont get in a relationship so quick. Dating is the key to a happy relationship. And if YOU are in an abusive relationship, please, just let that person go, there is always someone out there better. No one out there deserves to be mentally nor physically abused. Talk to someone. I would talk to my bestfriend if i were in a situation like this, because its someone i can really trust.