1.) If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

2.) If a man doesn't want you, then don't try and make us stay. Once we lose interest it's pretty much a done deal.

3.) Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. If it doesn't work when you be yourself then it won't work if you pretend to be someone else.

4.) Slower is better (for your sake). We're not impressed if you give it up on the first week. Every man wants a challenge. 

5.) If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. To be honest, he's probably waiting for you to brake up with him. Don't stay because you think "it will get better" cause it won't.

6.) The only person you can control in a relationship is you. We hate for a woman to try and control us. The last thing we want is to be told what to do.

7.) Always have a set of friends separate from his. It's cool to go out with just the "girls" sometimes because we wanna go out with just the "guys" sometimes. Plus it could get hella ackward when you guys break up.

8.) Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. Make us open doors for you and if something bothers you, speak up. We can't read your mind. 

10.) Never let a man know everything. We WILL use it against you later.

11.) You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. We're big boys, we know when it's time for a change.

12.) NEVER cheat on your man with one of his friends. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

13.) A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. If you let dude smack you around then you're in for a loooonnngggg relationship.

14.) All men are NOT dogs. There are still some good ones left ya know.

15.) You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. The last thing we want is baggage.

16.) You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.

17.) Dating is fun…even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

18.) Make us miss you sometimes…when a man always knows where you are, then you're always readily available to him. Then we take it for granted. 

19.) Don't cry ALL the time. Basically because we don't know how to react. All we're gonna say is "it's okay" or "stop crying"

20.) Don't be the first one to say I love you. It puts us in a weird situation because the "L" word is big. If you love your man and you're not sure if he loves you back then he doesn't. You'll know when we're in love. TRUST ME! 

This is for all the ladies out there because I'm tired of seeing a lot of beautiful women who think they're in a good relationship and their man "loves" them when they're not and he doesn't. So ladies, hopefully you acknowledeged these little tips and find that special someone who makes you happy. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. "If you need a hand…use mine." "Emancipate yourself from mental slavery, none but ourselves can free our minds." -Bob Marley