As one form of love changes to another we can't help but wonder what love really is. What is it that makes us fall for one person but not another? How are we suppose to be sure that what we think is love is in fact love? Someone you love should make you feel special. But, don't all relationships seem to start out that way? Maybe part of the problem is that unimportant things make us feel special because there are so many things that have made us think otherwise. Love is contradicting, isn't it? Like I said, your true love should always make you feel special and good about yourself right? But, is that possible when it's impossible to never diagree or ague? Is love even logical? Whose to say you've met the person you want to spend the rest of your life with if you haven't met everyone in the world?
And then there's the whole thing with age. Does age difference matter? Can a 20 year old really fall in love with a 50 year old? It seems wrong because of the age difference and it's not likely that a 20 year old is going to find a 50 year old attractive, right? So, is love shallow? Love can definitely be shallow! For a relationship to start there has to be physical attraction. Sex has to be good; One of the leading causes of divorce is sex. So, what is there to say? Nothing, there is no arguement against reasoning like that.
Is love even possible when our original instinct as humans was to reproduce? It was not to find a mate we can spend the rest of our life with but to find someone to reproduce with and then move on to find another.
I'm not saying I don't believe in love. I'm asking, should we trust it? Is it right? And, if it is, why are there so many unanswered questions and so little known about it?
Well, regardless of all the unknowns and as emotionally risky love may be, I think I'll take my chances. Besides, He makes me happy. I love him.
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