i just got off the phone with a friend of mine. she was all upset that her boyfriend has still been keeping in contact with his ex. my friend's not exactly the jealous type, but her boyfriend is not keeping in touch with this girl in the "friend" sense. that would have been okay, but she sends him messages like "i love u" and "when will i see u again" and "let's go to dinner this weekend," and he tells her that he loves her and misses her. i cant understand how he can tell my friend that he loves her, but still talk to his ex-girlfriend like this. i think that is so disrespectful.
then, the guy i was talking to recently told me that he has been in a relationship this whole time and he loves his girlfriend. if he really loved her, he would never have pursued me in the first place, and things between us would never have reached the point that they did. he told me that he treats girls the way they allow him to treat them--basically saying he uses girls if they will let him--but since i seemed like a nice, respectable girl, he didnt want to lead me on only to use me. i cant honestly believe that he loves his girl because he cheats on her constantly, and then to make it worse, he's cheating on her with these fast girls who give it up easily.
why do people throw the word "love" around so carelessly? i think it is one of the most powerful words in the english language, but people act like it doesnt mean anything anymore. these days, love is almost synonymous with lust. i dont know about everyone else, but love is still an important word to me. im not going to tell someone i love them unless its true. i dont think u should play with peoples emotions like that.
im curious to kno how the rest of u feel about this subject...
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