I’m sure most people know of the double standard – girls shouldn’t have sex, but boys can (okay, my problem is this: who are they sleeping with if they’re straight and no girls should be having sex? Okay, I’m done with that). The girls are the sluts, and the guys can get away basically unscathed, unless there’s an STD involved, but that’s not the point of my entry.
It was a slow day at the waterfront. Sitting on the dock and basking in the sun a coworker and I began to discuss more than the trivial matters of weather and dinner plans. The conversation turned to premarital sex. He said to me, “People don’t know how much they will hurt the person they will marry.” It was an intriguing statement.
Alright, I'm as Anti-Christian as a Christian can be. I don't understand most of the "Christian" beliefs. Okay so sex is supposed to be sacred, huh? It's mating. This country has taken sex much too out of context. How many dates are you supposed to go on before "scoring"?
SEX
Complicated yet fairly understandalbe.
Kids have sex to be cool, because they're pressured into it. Point blank.
Adults have sex for pleasure and because they feel a connection with that person, however this is not always the case.
I have recently been told that the bible does not forbid premarital sex. Some one informed me that although it is frowned upon, premarital sex is not forbidden anywhere in the bible.
