I’ve never “casually dated” a guy before. Any guy I’ve gone out on a real date with has been my boyfriend. A lot of my friends are the same way – they see casual dating as slutty. It’s kind of funny, in my opinion, because none of my friends, or I, really have room to talk about the way other people act being slutty.
I must be weird or something. My friends always tell me about the date that they just went on with the guy they’re seeing, and somehow the words, “He paid for it!” come out. They get that little look on their face like, “Look at me, I have him wrapped around my finger, he paid for it! Aren’t you excited?”… And then they seem to be put off when I just shrug my shoulders.
Getting into the dating scene again is not fun. At least it doesn't look like fun. This is not me I'm talking about. I have a front row seat with popcorn! Although I poke fun at this it isn't a very funny matter. This year was a year of change and "the year of women."
Okay, I know that this isn't really the proper forum to discuss my personal problems....especially my relationship problems...so I promise, I'll try to expand on my topics so that it relates to more of human kind.
So, here's today's plan: Provide more details concerning my predicament (mostly the why), and provide commentary which others can relate to.
Ok so this always gets to me...WHY is it when men date more than one woman at a time he is known as a pimp but when a girl does it their known or thought be a slut?!
"Je rêve de toi."
"I dream about you."
Each dream seems real, and sometimes I wish it could be.
After all, in my dreams, you actually see me.
In my waking hours, I am invisible; just another listless body wandering the streets, going about my business.
Have you ever watched an old TV show where the boy was so in love with the girl that he would give her a pin and it was known as going steady? Things have definately changed. It has become mor common for the girl to ask the guy out and the date can be going anywhere, doing anything. We have progressed to finding "the one" on online dating sites, chat rooms, AIM, myspace, and facebook.
No.
See how easy it is to say that? No. It's not difficult at all. It's only one syllable, two measly letters...so why in the hell is it so hard to say.
