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I am getting married in three months and will be 20 years old on my wedding day. My parents raised me to believe that marriages would only work if you waited until at least 25 to be married...and in their case, that probably was the decision that was best. What frustrates me the most is that it is assumed that their way is the ONLY way.  Read More »

Ok, so through out my life I've always been different. Some have called me weird since I don't fall with in the norm of society, some have called me unique, and some just call that me. What ever you would call it, I'm that. Theres not another person alive that is at all similar to me, but I like it, this feeling of being unlike others.  Read More »

I am a shy and busy person I am trying to pursue my career goals and that means having a decent social/personal life really doesnt exist at lest for me. In addition I am a shy person so even with the little time I have to go and have fun I am to shy to approach the hot guy and talk to him. So what do I do I try online dating.  Read More »

April, 2008:

"If I do 70 push ups, will you stay?" he asks, half kidding, half serious. We are sitting in his living room, his arm around my shoulders, our usual positions.

"Will you?"

I don't know what to say. I know I can't stay; I have to go back, have to experience things for myself.  Read More »

Is it sad that I miss my ex-boyfriend that dumped me over a year ago, and we had only dated for a month to begin with? (By the way, the dumping occured ON our actual anniversary, through text message. He was in Wisconsin, I was here, but still. At least call me, you chicken shit).

Okay, here's the thing:  Read More »

I guess there isn't really a single topic that is blog is about, but a couple of related ones. Its mainly for me to kind of organize my thoughts and clear my head. If you ever read or have read many of my other blogs, this is going to be much the same as them, but with a slightly new look to it.  Read More »

While cruising through some streaming video sites, at the end of each video, the Adobe Flash Player screen would present me with an advertisement for singles/dating sites, usually of the same organization.  Read More »

I remember in the late 90's when the internet popularity was really starting to take off and people were discovering that you could talk to someone across the world in a different time zone. And with the upgrading of the penpal to an electronic version people saught to find other things online besides friendship, like love or sex.  Read More »