visionsnflight's blog

So, i've been thinking a lot about why i've been so unhappy and distraught at the present and I think i've been getting to a better understanding. Happiness derives from pleasure and joy from doing things that we love and being around people we love. But lately, I've just been withholding lots of anger, resentment and frustration..mostly apart due to various family issues.  Read More »

For a while now, I know I haven't been feeling myself lately and I thought it was solely based that it was because i was dealing with lots of personal struggles internally with family and what have you...but now that my family situation is more stable, i have still been finding myself really annoyed with anything that doesn't go my way and always find something that isn't going to make my day go w  Read More »

It has come to my attention that our society continues to press the matter that a woman is not accomplished if she doesn't have a man standing by her side. It is simply a ridiculous idea that a woman cannot be independent and not need the company of a man by her side. For men can only continue to disappoint us with their arrogrance, ignorance, impertience and indifference to a woman's feelings.  Read More »

So, today it hit me...people who wait for the one...isn't all that it is all cracked up to be...
I mean if you've found them already, great, but it's a fairy tale ending....that happens for very few..  Read More »

When you love someone enough to let them go....  Read More »

Maybe true happiness lies within ourselves and it just hurts us to be around others who are truly happy because it makes us jealous because we want what we don't have: true happiness.  Read More »

So, talking it out actually is really effective if you're feeling under the weather. Sometimes, a person just needs some reassurance that they're not alone and that they can make it through it all. One of things that has lifted up my spirits is that I feel confident once more in being an independent women and not needing a guy by my side to make me feel happy.  Read More »

Its confirmed, boys are idiots and yet girls still can't live without them. Once you think that you can live without them and yet, you get this terrible feeling of discomfort once it all ends. In otherwards, as fall hits, I've been to feel again the remorse of change in the most negative form, that by this time next year I'll be without my best friend and no one could ever take her place.  Read More »