soulsekr13's blog

I will never understand men at all. I have been married to my husband for fifteen years. He has changed alot in those years but he is a lousy husband!!

Some men I think must learn from their fathers all about life. God help me if that is true because his dad ran around on his mom and treated her like property.

I don't get it. Yes he is a pretty good dad in that he is here for the girls although he is a bit of a chovinist. I can understand a bit of it considering the way I have been treated by men most of my life I am raising my daughters to watch their backs.  Read More »

http://home.hamptonroads.com/stories/story.cfm?story=102136&ran=236892

One Blogger asked how I could say we thow away our children. Here a baby was found in a dumpster. It was found the baby was alive when dumped and simply thrown away.

I realize it could have been a teenager who was too scared to tell her mother ,but more than likely it was a mother who just didn't want the baby just like the last person.  Read More »

http://home.hamptonroads.com/stories/story.cfm?story=104124&ran=195201

 This is the case of Tammy Skinner. She shot herself in the stomach while 9 months pregnant to kill her unborn child. The kicker? The state of Virginia can't find anything to charge her with!!!!!!

She murdered her baby. If someone else had shot her then the lacy and conner law would have been in effect. But because she shot herself there is no law to cover it. SO far all the people can come up with is filing a false police report.  Read More »

Today I saw the movie last holiday and it got me thinking, the reality is most of us can't sell off everything we own and hop on a plane but what a deal it would be huh?

I sware I am suppose to be mom , warden and care giver. I am so sick of everyone not pulling their weigt because they think I will pull it for them if they don't.They say wow you are so pure because you don't drink and don't smoke and hold it all together ,Have they looked at me? Do I look like i have anything together?I am leaning just like you. I am fighting to live every day just like you. I wake up and say wow yesterday was bad but today is good.Today I have control over my decisions and my actions. Now I just have to get up LOL  Read More »

I was always a high strung person. I was overly nervous and cautious of people. I cried when I was seperated from my mom and was terrified of people .At 12 I didn't go school for 6 weeks I was too afraid.The kid were horrible to me and I felt like the feak of the week when I walked though the door.

I thought I was just weird and I felt like I needed to hide it.i tried but I started having panic attacks. After calling the paramedics after the umpteeth time I began staying where I felt safe which at first was local stores and my home.  Read More »

What is mentally ill anyway? How much can a person take before they snap? What happens when someone snaps do they leave their mind?And when they do where exactly is they go? When people snap and kill people because they have all they can take what does it mean?

Well I can tell you unloading all your pent up frusterations by blogging keeps this from happening but I want to let you into the mind of someone it happened to.  Read More »

Ok we have fought for our rights throughout history. Women can now vote, black people and white people are now equal.Men and women can be on the same playing field or battle field

Now its lets discriminate against fat people and Hollywood is involved whole heartidly. On CSI they had an episode where a fat woman killed a man because she passed out on him during sex and crushed him. Law and order did a show where kids beat up a fat kid because he was stinking up a park bench as they put it. The fat kid struck back and shot him because they didn't have enough evidence., The fat kid shot him. What do you think happened next? On american idol a derrogetory comment is made.At my kids school kids get beat uo and picked on because they aren't a size two. Once again the fat kid struck back and was suspended for punching the kid in the nose.NO the teacher claims she never heard a thing.....  Read More »

When I was going through the blogs I had to comment on the smoking section. My husband smokes I quit years ago. Now its like we fight over where he smokes. He is polite and smokes outside but sometimes he stands there with the door open and blows the snoke out. When the smoke comes back in he doesn't understand why I am so angry about it.

Yes he has the right to smoke and i don't have the right to tell him not too .But for God sake do you I have the right to BREATE?
Its not like breathing is a choice either. You choose to light the cigarette and you choose to put that crap in your lungs. However if I don't breathe  I will die!  Read More »