People in times of hardship often rely on hope to have things get better. Even under less dire circumstances people seem to hope for things to get better. So whats all this hoping about?
In my opinion hope simply reflects a defense mechanism we have developed in order to try to cope with things we dont think we can deal with. Hope is in essence a cushion so when we fall we may fall hard but dont get broken. Furthermore, hope acts as a reflects a certain loss of control in our lives. The times we hope the most is when we feel nearly helpless. The real problem with hope comes when we rely on it and use it as a crutch for every situation or if we use become disillusioned with false hope of things happening which cannot happen. Read More »



