Everyone says oh myyy god! She/he said blahblahblah about me, and then spew off on how that person is such a bitch or an asshole. Bottom line, no one wants anyone to talk badly about them, but everyone does it, especially in defense to themselves. It makes people feel better about themselves.
I think it is okay to talk shit, IF and ONLY IF you could stop and ask yourself honestly, if this person came up to me and said " now did you say this about me? why would you say that?" would you fess up? i think its okay if you say this person can be such a control freak, and then someone is bored and tells that person, and they come up to you and say "did you say that?" and you say, "YES why YES you can be such a controlling bitch sometimes, and it makes me mad sorry," if they get mad say, "then dont give me a reason to say or think that about you," and if they dont, GOOD for them they took your critisim maturely, but this doesn't give an excuse to go around spitting out your shitty over opinionated comments, because you're not dictator after all. So be honest, or grow a thick skin, you wuss.
....especially when you're dealing with someone who likes to play the victim, and constantly blogs about how everyone is being "mean" to her (while simultaneously ignoring her own bad behavior). One really has to wonder why such a person would continuously invite comment into her personal life, if she is so unwilling to be exposed to what people have to say about it.
TTFN,
Blackout
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Why is it that you have time to comment my silly "how im feeling at the moment" blogs, but the others which are really good ie shadow land, everythings conditional, are over looked, like im not capeable to form opinions and have solid views on actual topics? I don't get it.
Yes I talk shit about people, people talk shit about me, we talk about them and they talk about us... its the circle of life I know my feelings get hurt sometimes, but im not going to be a fucking push over and take it.
Yes I talk shit about people,
Indeed you do, and pointing out that hypocrisy when you complain about the way people talk to you is quite entertaining. Of course, the pattern seems to be that whenever you get called out for creating your own dramas, you respond by deleting the blog. I wonder how long this one will last?
TTFN,
Blackout
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I am not going to lie and say I have never said anything bad about someone behind their back...becuase of course I have. But really, morally, I dont think anyone should ever have a right to talk about someone, whether they insaulted you first and it is out of "self defense" or because you have the bravery to stand up for them if they confront you. THIS JUST CREATES DRAMA. If you have an issue with someone (which obviously you do if you have something negative to say about them) you need to take that up with them...IN PRIVATE. People seem to have no issue insaulting other people and slandering them, but point blank period you dont want people doing it to you. As the saying goes...Don't point you fingers unless your hands ae clean.
None of this was a personal thing, I wish I could remember to live by that moto myself. I get so wrapped up in anger sometimes that...I talk badly about people. But life is to short, seriously.
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I'm confused. Are you saying here "don't talk sh*t about people", "It's okay if you talk sh*t", or "If you get made fun of, don't be a wuss." You say all three, and they kinda negate the other points.
I mean, that would be like me going to you and saying, "You hardly use the right punctuation and capitalize nothing in your blogs. You don't know how to write! You're stupid!" And when you get upset by this (which I would think is likely, as I would feel bad too in that situation), then I'd say, "Oh grow a tougher skin you baby. Take this punishment and like it!"
Okay. Maybe the "liking it" part at the end was unnecessary, but you get the idea. And in case you're wondering, I don't think that you're stupid. I do think your blog lacks in grammar and such, but I don't assume the writer is stupid.
...would be if you said to this blogger, "Hey, your blogs would be a lot better if they contained proper punctuation and capitalization," after which you would be accused of calling the blogger "stupid" and then of "talking bad" about her, even though that wasn't at all what you said.
TTFN,
Blackout
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Im saying...
Don't waste time talking poorly about others, but since we ALL do it, be sure that when the person confronts you, you will stand your ground and say "yes I did say that." I mean I try my hardest not to talk badly about people, but there are sometimes when I blurt out what I really think. What makes me stand apart from others, is that if im confronted I'll fess up and tell them, but I'll give examples of how they acted that echos what I said about them.
Sorry about the poor editing... I wrote it in the middle of the night... pretty much fixed it though.