Bitch: It's an Admirable Quality

Today I was speaking to my father and somehow, like every other conversation we have, we went completely off topic. At first we were speaking about how when he reaches old age he plans on moving in with me and how it'd be like having a permanent baby sitter. I said that wouldn't be a good idea since I believe I am odd. To shorten it up, I told my father some people think my sister and I are bitches. Let me rephrase that. A LOT of people think we're bitches. He said he raised us fine then. That bitchy-ness is an admirable quality and it allows for us not to be taken advantage of.

This is true. I've been on both sides of the fence. Being taken advantage of and keeping my mouth shut and learning from it, being a bitch and shutting that process down. When I was younger, up until a few years ago, I kept my mouth shut. I was the friend of the girl who was the bitch. After a heartbreak and a few high school drama fits, I learned. I became a bitch. I also became cynical. The funny thing is that more people would remember me. In a good way? I wouldn't say that. But nonetheless, they knew who I was and what I would tolerate.

I can say this, its a great quality to have in relationships. That's my personal opinion. A lot of bullshit can pop up in relationships. Whether you chose to take it or not is also where you chose whether or not to be a bitch. OVER bitchy-ness, can be a bad thing. Its caused me to ruin a relationship for not being too flexible. It's a learning experience.