You girl? You nice, pretty and obedient!

Like usual this might all sound a bit ludicrous, crazy or whichever any person like’s to label the following.

Surely for some this might be difficult to relate or wrap some thought around.

Allow me to start with the craziness first, lol

Life, is same as having a marriage while pretending not being gay, lol, Lives’ full of desire along the path, even for women! A real brain kicker for those having doubts about choice they leave behind, pretending to be in love… While in truth there is but Love, a shared one, what sense other than common understanding in desire is needed to understand that about one oneself!

The above might be difficult to read, because it contradicts everything we believe to know about love, while the plain truth is, most of us don’t know, we guess according to what we learn and experience throughout our daily lives and how our brain responds to stimuli!

The weird part is realizing love actually isn’t something one can reach for, although many seem to believe commitment is all about love, I’m sorry to say, it’s the biggest joke ever to have been created in this world! It turns millions of individuals into helpless beings which cling to whatever love illusion they can wrap their minds and hands around!

Love is something else! Ultimate freedom in manifestation it is!

When reaching this state of mind or even to realize it, no longer there will be such things as suffering, regardless what!

It also means one will not any longer suffer from the biggest human enemy called desire.

Desire is the number one cause of human suffering and drama upon this Globe as we know it today. It easily turns people into whatever being one can possibly come up with, everything we witness in human behavior around is caused by, or due to a direct result of desire. One doesn’t have to wonder for long in order to figure out, while understand desire is therefore our biggest weakness. Desire is causing us to get hurt, addicted, sad, angry, mean, jealous, hateful, bitter, frustrated, annoyed, suicidal while in more worse extends perverts, murderers, terrorist, rapists and child abusers, while the list goes on and on!

The reason why things are the way they are today is simple! Humans are still in a stage of adolescence.

No need to mention, most amongst are unaware there is such a thing as humans in a transition face out of adolescence.

The good news, although it might all seem very different to comprehend when having a peak in our surroundings, humanity is growing out of this pattern at an amazingly rapid pace. Since human transition isn’t exactly something which takes place in human all together synchronicity, one can easily witness all conflicts which are arising from this shift out of adolescence.

Because of the accelerating in speed and overall stress the many changes this shift is pushing forward, people are getting deeply confused about everything, lol, some have a really hard time to relate and adapt to it all, instead of going with the flow, many are trying to control it by trying to put a halt to it all.

Because this occurrence of growing out isn’t understood, anyone who attempts to go against the flowing current, fails in doing so.

Those who cannot handle it, start to act stupid, while become partly responsible for the creation of which hunts upon all they regard being responsible for what they personally regard as being WRONG!

This image of wrong comes in place whenever people get stuck in their mind, were this used to be a more natural phenomena which is easy to witness amongst the much older less active members in societies, today, one can get stuck at the age of 30, 20, even 16 depending of the programming this individual has experienced.

The getting stuck in the mind is the inability to absorb EVERYTHING which is coming at you! Meaning to hide and turn away from what is taking place, like an ostrich sticking it’s head in the ground.

Depending of various criteria, it can lead one to suffer from a clouded vision upon the future, hence FEAR!

Depending on how one has been programmed in life, things can get wicked, while painful an experience for any individual finding itself walking around with a clouded vision.

Although they might seem normal to the outside world, more and more hit the news having killed their entire family before helping themselves to the other side.

Apparently no one seems to understand what triggers these dreadful event into manifestation!

Not being able to cope, because of wrong programming is the number one reason.

Many individuals fight a personal inner battle, one of none acceptance in regard to whatever which is taking place outside of their thoughts or mindset, they eventually get stuck, while in remaining so become lost in confusion. This leads some to become narrow minded to extends which more and more hit the news!

So one can ask the question, why do some come up with that need to kill their loved ones, instead of committing suicide alone while leaving others unharmed in the process?

Because it gives or better say, provides them with that strength, not power! needed to enable themselves to take their own life, if they don’t kill their loved ones, they cannot come up with that strength allowing them to put a hand upon themselves!

They are only capable of doing so, after tumbling down into a mindset which has narrowed them down to believe they have become nothing less but one big failure. It’s an act of despair driven by an immense amount of guilt and self-pity.

Some also try to erase their tracks of being, this to erase the memory which they believe would affect others, this lethal combination of negative emotion pushes many to drag wife and offspring inside drama.
Illusion, failure, guilt, memory are the more important items for a lethal recipe which drive’s certain individuals to resort in dreadful familial drama’s!

Individuals who walk through life with a (fake) false sense of pride, a (fake) lack of identity, together with an ego ruling over mind and soul are mostly those who refer to such acts when they find all 3 mentioned before, to be simultaneously under attack by what, who or whichever circumstance they can’t seem to deal with or worse escape from, because that’s what they strongly believe, there being no escape from what is plaguing them.

The fact they are all fake to begin with, enables them to shield themselves until the very last moment, while their true inner emotions remain unnoticed and invisible for all who are sharing the same environment, this regardless of home, work, friends environments!

This is why all those close remaining behind after trauma can’t possibly believe or relate to such drama and trauma having taken place, because it wasn’t him! People don’t understand all they knew about him they knew so well, was fake to begin with!

To address the realms of cheating, I would like to present some of my views upon this to.

Most male humans carry tendencies to inflict most hurt upon those they love most!

Yet again this caused by wrong programming, still today youngsters are being programmed in some sort of role play which is ludicrous.

You girl? You nice, pretty and obedient!
You boy? You strong, better than other boys and leader!

Another old school recipe to promote human drama, lol…

Any guy cheating upon his girlfriend, one who which he loves, is suffering from a weird complex, same applies to those who are extremely jealous and possessive in regard to the one they love, this last one, regardless if male or female.

This complex is one of not feeling to be good enough, in other words not worthy enough for him/her!

A lack in communicating skills, especially amongst teenagers make’s such they become addicted instead of emotionally entangled with one another.

Whenever not near one another, some find no better than to create all sort of thoughts and illusions of him/her doing things WRONG whenever he/she isn’t around!

Not surprisingly, girls being emotionally smarter are pulling the right end, still, there naivety plays tricks upon them, any female who can quickly lose her naivety will enjoy whatever lies upon her path!

Anyway, some walk around with thoughts and illusions of what is whenever he/she is not around!

These thoughts are rooted within a narrow concept of a self created illusions within a reflection of the self, this while a strong believe in carrying same thoughts as the one he/she loves are been manifested while plaguing the mind when negative.

This is pushed forward by a constant fear of loss.

In order to cope with this illusion, which weird enough mostly represents everything one loves, but hate to see in the behavior of the one he/she actually loves, FREEDOM to do what she/he pleases to do!
Inside one his thoughts, an example of negative thinking!

A pressure and stress of seeing the one they love inside a self constructed illusion of thought, imaginary images of her hanging around another boys neck, talking or having shear fun with other guys or even cheat while having sex with his best friend. These mad up scenarios of thought can easily built up to such an extent making them to grow far out of proportion if they are not being acknowledge in reality, a situation which immediately explains jealousies and possessive behavior first hand!

This alone makes such that possessive and jealous individuals are the most obvious type’s to be cheaters, lol.

The fact of them carrying a mind state in which they walk around with the illusion of being cheated upon, make’s or pushes them to act as such accordingly!

Punishment, to punish in advance the one loved for something which didn’t even happen, while this punishment takes place in the mind only!

It’s a weakness, people who carry a low self-esteem, are the more easy to be cheaters than those who are ok with themselves.

The funny like in weird part attached to it, mostly when individuals cheat, they hardly enjoy the cheating part itself, because they lack other than the false illusion itself, while no prove of their loved one to be or having acted in same behavior! This backlashes upon the relation since more possessive and jealous an individual they become after, while having not only cheated upon their partner but themselves too. Hence guilt and a more deeper fear of losing while the feel of being unworthy eventually start to affect and annoy the partner. All this regardless awareness or unawareness of the cheating that has taken place.

Individuals who love themselves don’t carry that need to cling, act jealous or possessive towards, because they are not limited in freedom to express their inner emotion.

Those individuals easily draw to themselves which makes them the happy person which they are, already.

Love is energy, one who can trigger while bring it up within, carries no need to seek it outside.

When cheated upon, one needs not to feel sad but relieved in knowing he/she isn’t worth a second chance!

Usually cheaters come around eating out of one’s hand after a while, it’s the addiction which brings them back at the doorstep of one’s door. All the excuses and requests for forgiveness are just ways to express how much desire is burning to have sex! lol

To get involved in another love adventure makes things more easy to address and deal with when s’ex comes knocking at the door!

The trick is to be found in breaking down your own limitation, to learn not getting caught in addiction, to become the addiction is far better a way to go through life, while nothing to be ashamed of!

Experience rules in Love land, because it allows to learn and draw at you, instead of seeking.

Love is freedom regardless of form and format!