I would just like to comment on a social trend that I have noticed over the years. For a short period of time following my undergraduate education, I moved back in with my family to build a savings account and lay a foundation for my career, without having to worry about unemployment. When I returned home, I was most surprised to learn that my parents had a schedule of reality television programs that they watched religiously. I quickly fell into the routine of watching those shows with them, mostly for the novelty of it. (I couldn’t afford television when I was at Uni.)
After awhile, however, it became a way to bond with my mom and step-dad of five years. We each had our own seats in the family room and it became a kind of ritual. At the end of the day I would unwind with my parents, laughing at what we saw, discussing the day’s events, and tossing verbal spars out at one another.
Now that I have moved out, I don’t see too many of those programs any more. I don’t watch them on my own. There are still certain ones that we watch together, however. I go to their house a little before the show begins, and mom and I gossip about the family and our respective jobs. We still settle in our same places and crack the same jokes that we have for years.
I wonder if it’s a sad commentary that “the American family” now comes together around the television screen, and watching reality TV at that. Even if it is, those are special times we spend together, and precious memories that I get to keep.
Sad commentary?
By sahara - Posted on November 3rd, 2008



Things change. I believe as long as you are doing family things together then I don't see a problem with it. Reality shows get on my nerves, but I am guilty because that is really all there is to watch I normally like movies better though.
Come to the darkside....we have cookies ;)
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I think that you're right - as long as we're doing family things. It's an odd tradition, but its one that works for us!
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I don't think it is too sad. At least their is bonding and some form of communication.
True but I still ong for the days when families would go out and do reality instead of watching it on the death trap...I mean TV. But it is so much easier and my husband and I bond to a season show at the end of our long long days. We now leave the weekends for the fun outside stuff.
Love is like a box of chocolates; if you chose wisely you won’t be disappointed and have to spit it out. ~T