Ok, I know to some people me "terminating my pregnacy" is worng and I should be punished for that. And then to others, they feel like I had to do what's right for me. I know that killing my baby is sinfull, but its my body and i'll do what I want with it. I hate it when people critized me because of my abortion. You all have no clue how hard it was for me to go through not just the abortion but the pregancy in it's self.
I live in a single parent home and we dont have insurance for me to carry a baby for nine months. So even if I could have given my child up for adoption their was no way for me to pay for all of the doctors visits
And second, Im to small to carry a child. I only weigh 80 pounds and my body isn't cappable of carry a baby right now.
I belive untill you have gone through what I've been through, you all have no right to critize me of my decisions.
Yes I know that everyone has his or her own oppions but it's worng to keep blaming me and telling me what I did was worng.
A true Christian would see past my sin and help me overcome my battles. "Hate the sin not the sinner", its in the Bible.
I know what I did was wrong and I have asked for forgiveness and I truely belive that God has forgiven me of all my sins. Because the God that I serve is a loving God and a forgiving God and my Father the only father that I have.
I turly love the Lord and i know that He loves me.
So please instead of critizing me pray for me and help me become a better Christian. If you can't do that then I'll keep praying for you.
"He who is without sin cast the first stone"
Why the hell does it matter if your right and I'm wrong
By jeanelsa09 - Posted on October 15th, 2008
Tagged: pro-choice
• pro-life
I'm sorry that people have been so critical of you and your decision. The fact is... it was your decision and more than likely, not one you made easily. Perhaps those criticizing you should shut up for five minutes and take to heart the "walk a mile in my shoes" mantra.
Best of luck to you!
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~Fallon~
The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.- Russell
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Thanks. it may seem that what happened to me was bad but i have moved on and just want people to stop critizing me for it. but thanks for the support BeautifulFlower
Well, you did kill a human being and that's usually not just considered wrong, but also criminal. Fortunately for you our society not only allows babies to get killed but encourages it. I'm a male and cannot even imagine the burden of pregnancy so I cannot understand the emotional and physical pain involved with unwanted pregnancies with or without an abortion. Abortion is the killing of a human being but there's just so much more to it - it's certainly not black and white. Good luck to you and I really do not know what to say as I have not resolved the struggle between morality and practicality that plagues this issue. You did something very wrong but the circumsatcnes exonerate you for the most part I believe. Also, it sounds like you are a good person so I'm sure your emotional struggle and pain was more than enough "punishment" for what happened. Forgive yourself and continue being a good person. Easy for me to say but I don't have any other answer though and for that I'm sorry. .