I'm really annoyed right now. Not only annoyed, but baffled at how many people are victims. Victims of what? BAD GRAMMAR!! Grammar mistakes and typos make me want to scream. How hard is it to proofread what you've written or look up the spelling of a word in the dictionary? You're already online, just type in dictionary dot com and check the spelling if you're unsure. Moreover, I'm extremely baffled at how many people on here have a degree from a college, or are in their second or third year of college, and STILL make such awful mistakes. If you want to get your point across, it would really help your readers if you used proper grammar. Please don't use abbreviations for words like "you" and "what"; it's tacky. This is a competition for a scholarship, not who knows the latest and hippest spellings of words.
It's not just people who blog on this website that irk me; it's the English speakers I've met in Korea. These people come here to teach English, but how can they teach Koreans English if they don't know it themselves? The occasional mistake is fine..no one is perfect...however, when other teachers here really don't know the difference between "their" and "there"...we've got a problem. Most of these people are English majors, and I have no idea how they graduated from college without anyone ever bothering to correct their poor grammar. It's sad. What has become of our education in America? There's also the problem of punctuation, but we'll get into that at another time!
Please just take a minute and look over the following. It's important to be able to write properly in this day and age of shortcuts and illiteracy. Let me help you:
They're=(contraction) they are. E.g. They're going to the mall.
Their=possessive. E.g. It's their house.
There=place. E.g. The dog is over there.
Who's=(contraction) who is. E.g. Who's at the door?
Whose=possessive. E.g. Whose car is that?
Then=description of time. E.g. I showered and then went to the movies.
Than=preference. E.g. I'd rather eat chicken than pizza.
Your=possessive. E.g. Is that your pen?
You're=(contraction) you are. E.g. You're making me mad!
Affect=usually a verb, it means "to influence," "to have an effect on," or "to act in a way that you don't feel." E.g. The rain affected my hair and made it frizzy.
Effect=usually a noun, it means "a result." E.g. The rain had no effect on my hair. (Notice 'the'...the effect...noun)
(there are more complicated ways to use these words, but I'm not going to get into those right now)
It's=(contraction) it is. E.g. It's raining cats and dogs!
Its=possessive. E.g. The dog kept chasing its tail.
To=preposition that introduces a receiver or destination of an action; also part of an infinitive verb (to be, to go). E.g. He was taking her to the store.
Two=number. E.g. There were two cats.
Too=adverb meaning "also" or "excessively." E.g. I like pizza too. *or* Too much salt will ruin this recipe.
Compliment=offering of praise or flattery. E.g. He gave me a compliment on my outfit.
Complement=refers to something that completes or goes well with something else. E.g. Peanut butter and jelly complement each other.
"I" is always capitalized
"Cannot" is ONE word
"A lot" is TWO words
Fiancé=male engaged to be married.
Fiancée=female engaged to be married.
Advice=noun. E.g. Please give me some advice.
Advise=verb. E.g. He advised me not to do it.
Let's=(contraction) let us. E.g. Let's go out to eat.
Lets=verb. E.g. He lets his dog out every night before he goes to bed.
Cite=citation. E.g. I cited the author in the footnotes.
Sight=noun, refers to the sense of seeing. E.g. He was a sight for sore eyes!
Site=1. noun, actual location of something. E.g. Internet site, construction site; 2. verb, assign a location to. E.g. The plan is to site all further malls in the suburbs.
Parent=one parent (also a verb: to parent)
Parents=two parents
Parent's=possessive, one parent. E.g. (knowing there is only one parent) I need your parent's permission before you can do that.
Parents'= possessive, two parents. E.g. I need your parents' permission before you can do that.
Bush=1. one bush. 2. George Bush
Bushes=1. two bushes. E.g. There are two bushes in my front yard.
2.The Bush family (two or more members of a family with the last name Bush). E.g. The Bushes would like to wish you happy holidays.
Bushes'=1. possessive plural. E.g. The bushes' berries. 2. Possessive of two or more members of a family with the last name Bush. E.g. I took all the Bushes' cards because I didn't know which one I'd need to talk to later on.
Bradley=last name, singular
Bradleys=last name, plural. E.g. Merry Christmas from the Bradleys
Woman/Man=singular
Women/Men=plural
Piece=a separate part of a whole. E.g. He gave me a piece of cake.
Peace=harmonious relations. E.g. I wish for world peace.
Bored=uninterested. E.g. The lecture bored me.
Board= piece of wood. E.g. I'm going to the hardware store to buy some wood.
Loose=a tooth is loose
Lose=you lose a tooth
Hear=perceive sound via ears. E.g. I can hear your music all the way down the street!
Here=location. E.g. I'm going over here to sit.
I vs. me=Regardless of what you may think, one does not always say "____ and I." In order to figure out which is correct, delete the other person from the equation. If you've written, "My brother and me find that offensive," take away "my brother." You're left with "Me find that offensive." That doesn't sound right at all! Correct: My brother and I find that offensive.
On the other hand, "Do you want to go with James and I to the game?" is wrong. If you take out "James," you're left with "Do you want to go with I to the game?" Correct: Do you want to go with James and me to the game?
Another thing...it's common English to hear something like, "He's younger than me." This, however, is wrong. The correct way to say it is, "He's younger than I." Why? Pretend for a moment you are going to continue the sentence, "He's younger than I am." Simple, eh?
k



I agree that their are many formal situations in which "proper" diction/ grammar are indispensable. However, in daily life, there are just as many (and probably far more) situations in which "improper" diction and grammar allow one to communicate far more effectively. The type of language you use all depends on the context (are you at work, are you writing an academic paper, are you hanging out with friends, are you hanging out with parents, are you giving a speech?). Essentially, there is no such thing as one "proper" set of rules for language/ grammar- the rules should be adjusted to the situation.
Throughout my college education, I have not had a single professor correct anyone's grammar or spelling. I think that's a lack of the education system.
The more often one slacks on grammar, the more likely one is to forget proper grammar.
I can understand instant messaging or text messaging being as short and half-assed as possible This is not the place for it.
I was tagged "grammar police" on a forum I used to be on. I would correct grammatical errors. It was as annoying to them as it was to me.
-Sonja :)
"Democracy works only when you vote. When you don't take the time to vote for the candidate you find the least offensive, you run the risk of electing the candidate you find the most offensive."
I agree that the education system today fails to effectively teach students the type of grammar they need for certain formal situations. However, what's just as important is teaching that no one set of language rules is "correct": the CONTEXT of the situation RULES.
Your post gives a case-in -point:
"I was tagged "grammar police" on a forum I used to be on. I would correct grammatical errors. It was as annoying to them as it was to me."
... "Correct" grammar is the grammar that gets the point across effectively. If all the other members of the forum had no trouble understanding each other, then whatever grammar they used was "correct." Your "corrections" may have actually been "wrong" in regards to that context.
It's actually, "in regard to." ^^
Sorry, I could resist...I love irony.
k
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http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/49917
It's actually, "could not resist"
Funny things is, we both understood each other completely despite two "incorrect" grammar choices. That's because in this context (the context being this forum), the rules of what you call "proper" or "correct" grammar do not apply.
No proper set of rules for grammar? So it's totally cool to use, "I see them over their." It's not a rule to use "there"? I absolutely agree that the type of language someone uses depends entirely upon their surroundings. However, when speaking to a friend, it's not necessary to know that you mean "there" instead of "their." When it comes time to write it on a piece of paper, however, you should know better.
I write more formally than I speak. I say, "me and so and so," "he's younger than me," etc., but I know that's not how I write.
k
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http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/49917
I had a similar grammar geek conversation Sunday evening. I actually got in a fight explaining possessive family names. My friend is British, and years ago he claimed that Americans don't know proper grammar. Sunday, he told me, "Too, two, to, their, they're there...What's it matter? They sound the same!"
I've been lazy on this site lately. Of course, I've been on pain killers for the past week...
-Sonja :)
"Democracy works only when you vote. When you don't take the time to vote for the candidate you find the least offensive, you run the risk of electing the candidate you find the most offensive."
I love grammar geeks! I think your British friend sounds like he's been on pain killers for the past week ^^
k
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reality amidst bullshit
http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/49917
I have always suggested that people type their blogs in Word. That is what i do, I actually started doing it because my laptop has a mind of its own and will randomly go back and then my blog is gone. It doesn't always help, but most the time it is a good idea.
http://www.progressiveu.org/043043-mom-i-can-finally-write-you-letter
Sorry to disappoint you, but I am voting for Lewis Black.
DrifterDani~
I used to use Internet Explorer and that would happen to me all the time (mostly because Vista sucks), but with Firefox it keeps what I've written just in case it stops responding (best idea ever!). I have something right now that checks my spelling no matter what program I'm using and I love it. For people who don't have that, writing in Word is an EXCELLENT idea..I wish more people would follow your lead!
k
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reality amidst bullshit
http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/49917
I also use the spell-check feature on firefox. I love it. If you don't have firefox, I highly recommend it, along with some of the other cool free features offered.
-Sonja :)
"Democracy works only when you vote. When you don't take the time to vote for the candidate you find the least offensive, you run the risk of electing the candidate you find the most offensive."