What's with all the talk about abortion

Why is everyone so concerned with what a woman wants to do with her body. Abortion should be a choice. Women should not have to be told what they should do with their bodies. When the government starts controlling our right to give birth and go through with the 18 years of hard labor and hard work to care for a child, what will they start to controll next. Is it right that the government allows women to use birth control.
I recently had an abortion. No it wasn't because I was a party animal and I got drunk, or some one night stand. No I was raped. Yes raped. I ended up pregneat. I chose to go through with the abortion because I knew in my mind that I couldn't care for a child that was conceived out of hate and not love. I didn't want to be reminded everyday of that terrible night, When a man a grown man decided that he wanted to take advantage of an 80 pound 17 year old.
So ladies tell me does the government have the right to controll your body?
Those who say that abortion should be illegal have you ever had to carry a child. Have you ever had to wake up day after day throwing up everything you eat. Have you every had every single part of your body be in pain. Have you ever had to experience going through an emotional rollercoster. Have you ever experienced these feelings at all???