"God, My Feet are cold" (PUN on Divorce)

saint_o_nothing's picture
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

To answer your question, yes that is an over-emphasized exclamation of onomatopoeia, but I think it fits considering the “pandemonium” that is my life. It has been turned up side down then thrown from wall to wall and then beat on with a nice sized hammer, but in a kinda okay way I guess.

Well I haven’t been here to blog for a while (not that you noticed with the competition if full spring) but s lot has happened since then, one I am typing this entire thing on a home computer and posting it on a website. You see, I have been unable to do this because I have not had a computer able to go on the internet in a very long time. Yes that really sucks, but I am resilient and can deal.

Another odd new thing is that I am typing this in a new house, yes I have moved (not that you knew where I previously lived nor where I have recently gone too. Though the reason for this move may be an odd surprise. I am now a quant “victim” of the evil thing we describe as divorce. Of course I did not get a divorce (I am a tad bit too young) My parents have. They have been together for quite sine time but sadly they thought that kids would keep them together over actually like each other. And that my good Anonymous friends is the point of this wonderful (yeah right)

Divorce, a word affecting most American couples, We think of it as an evil cope out of the one thing we MUST hold dear. IT has torn apart so many families and it has destroyed some lives, yet so many can profit from it. My parents are getting one, and why well because it just doesn’t work. I do commend them though. I could no where near be unhappy for so long on someone else’s accord. They have three children, myself included and we knew it was coming. I personally thought it would have been sooner but they went right on for another 2 years.

Why should people get a divorce, a question I have been asking for a long, long time. My philosophy is not get married unless you feel it is absolutely vital to your own happiness. A baby is a compelling reason but I think a nice substitute for a married mother father would be a nice father who doesn’t live with mommy because they are a dysfunctional coupling. But hell you decide. In all honesty I can’t really see a reason for such utter “discomfort” as to live with someone you really don’t like. Now I know, people fight, and emotions get high enough where a divorce can just be made and done with, this is a completely stupid decision, same as getting married in Vegas. I’m not sure why people make such fast paced crappy decisions but it really doesn’t matter I guess, no affect on me.

My only point is to just think about things you do, make sure you mean to get married or get a divorce. I will only get married if I know that it is in my best interest, this may seem selfish but think about it, that is the only way it is ever going to work. I understand why my parents did it and I am glad, things are a lot less hostile now.

Thanks for listening I guess.
Saint

drifterdani6886's picture
Member of the Progressive U Alumni Association

I was wondering where you were at that should at least count for someone huh? And I also knew what area you lived in but I will keep it a secret.

Marriage is....good if the people are right for each other. In my opinion I think someone should date someone at least 10 years before tying the knot. But I have my own problems about marriage, and also about things going on in life right now as well.

It was probably best like you stated (at least from what I hear about your dad in your other blogs) but I don't want to say that just because I don't know the whole situation.

I believe alot of marriages fail because people don't want to try to work it out, it takes effort to work through a marriage (not that I know but from a relationship viewpoint). Normally one person will try and the other won't change to make it work. This is not true for all marriages sometimes, they really made a mistake by choosing that person, but didn't realize it, or set issues aside, until they walked down the isle.

Hang in there I am sure it is tough, but if you need to vent just PM me.

Sorry to disappoint you, but I am voting for Lewis Black.
DrifterDani~

saint_o_nothing's picture

I think someone should date someone at least 10 years before tying the knot.
-Dani

That seems pretty intense... But what the hell do i know
Just a classic teen.
Thank you for the wonder, it does make me feel all warm and fuzzy.
Oh and the chorus of hullos is b-e-a-utiful

You know, ive never been one to believe in the whole "meant to be" thing, mostly cuz ive never actually been in love, but i do think you really have to think about a commitment, and you know divorce isn't terrible, sometimes its neccesary for the sake of peoples sanity but that doesn't mean people get the right to "flavor of the month"

again thanks for the attention, and the comments.

Saint O Nothin' Says
We were certainly uncertain
At least I'm pretty sure I am
We didn't need the water
BUT we still built that good God DAM!
- Modest Mouse

fallon's picture
Managing Director of Progressive U

Welcome back Saint! We have missed you.

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~Fallon~

The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.- Russell
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sawaboof's picture
Volunteer for the Progressive U Alumni Association

I'll add in my own "Welcome back" to the chorus! I've missed your writing and sense of humor. I hope you're adjusting well to the new living arrangements.


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wombels's picture
Member of the Progressive U Alumni Association

Wish more persons like yourself and Dani joined this platform, I guess it’s because of the way you both deal and talk about what is taking place around your lives, deep inside I know, things will turn out fine for the both of you!

Thanks for being here,

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