what happened to the good old days when boys respected girls and girls respected them self. maybe things were just covered up, but it seems to me like the world is rapidly changing in terms of sexuality.
I was sitting in class, listening to the people around me because I had nothing better to do (haha) and I heard a girl talking about her boyfriend who was 22 and she is only 17. then things got even more interesting when she started talking about the things she has done with "older men' haha (which of course I laughed at because who says that! ) besides the point I began thinking, which im starting to wonder if I do to much of, doesn’t it seem like everyone is having sex. and why? because I have noticed that all that happens is you cry a lot, your "ego gets prego", and you break up with the guy who has probably told every one of his buddies about you and all you receive in return is a kid, std, and a bad reputation.
now I wouldn’t consider myself perfect by any means and im not insulting anyone who has chosen to have sex out of marriage but doesn’t it seem like you would have saved your self a lot of drama and heart ach. I know I can say that high school has been the best time of my short life and ironically many of "those girls" who choose not to wait and decided to be mature to early, really didn’t enjoy it to much. because lets face it, high school is one big gossip fest and people will know and they will make life hard on you just because you made one bad mistake.
now...getting to the guys, your buddies will think its cool and in reality there are some guys who you just cant change their mind. but goodness, control yourself. what would Jesus do? well he was a carpenter so probably make a bench, try that as a hobby :)
the good ole wholesome days
By ashley nicole09 - Posted on October 8th, 2008
Tagged: abstinance
I agree with you. Sometimes, I wish it was still back in those days, when girls were respected, and guys did not assume that a date also meant 'getting some' at the end of it. Guys and girls dated because they enjoyed each other's company, and were looking for someone to settle down with.
Also, sex at too young of an age is a problem. It not only causes STDs, which can be passed on and on in a neverending cycle, it causes a lot of emotional harm to those who engage in it. Girls are very attached to what happens emotionally in their lives. If they have sex as such a young age, they will always remember that time, even if it was not a good memory, or a good person to remember. They will always compare their later partners to their first partner too.
We have many girls in our school who regularly have sex. Some of them are on birth control, others are not. Last year, at a party, a girl lost her virginity to a guy she then only dated for another week. Everyone in school knew about it within the next 2 days, and I can honestly say I haven't been able to look at her the same way again. This is a terrible problem!
We need to take a stand for what's right, and that does not include, in almost all cases, having sex at a young age, or dating people much older than you are.
well said! i completely enjoyed reading that, not to many pple agree with me on that topic haha