Although Islam is the second largest religion in the world, it still has little popularity in America. I am an American Muslim. I live in a rural area with people that I have know my whole life. I generally get along with everybody, and in my hometown, being a Muslim was never anything that my friends and the people I know were really prejudiced against. But there is a deal of racism that goes on, so I don't wear a scarf on my head out of fear of being targeted.
During the summer, and when I have fridays off from school, my family goes to the mosque together in a larger city. On occasion, when my dad doesn't have to work, we make a big event of it. After prayers, we'll spend the afternoon in the mall or at a park. When I was younger, this was always fun. It felt like the rest of the world didn't really matter except my family and I. It always felt like it was just us. However, during recent years I've noticed a difference. When I go out afterwards with my family with my scarf on, I get sideways glances, awkard stares, and sometimes even ignored.
I remember the moment I first noticed this trend was during an afternoon at the mall. I went into one of my favorite stores, and I wasn't greeted by anyone when I first walked in. I thought that was a little odd, but I didn't really think anything of it. It wasn't until I was browsing through the jeans that it really hit me that I was treated differently. I asked for help, and the woman hardly looked me in the eye. Another woman and I caught eyes. I smiled, but she quickly looked away. I understand that these things happen, but I began to get suspicious.
I left the store and kept walking around to see if I could prove that I was being treated differently. A little boy stared at me, and his mother grabbed his hand and pulled him the other way. I saw a group of teenage girls look at me like I was crazy. The sense that it was just me and my family that I felt when I was younger wasn't simply a carefree thought. We really were isolated. People felt uncomfortable around us.
I have tried to figure out why exactly this happens, and the only reason that I can come up with is that we are different. Many people don't know what it means to be Muslim, and with so much bad press, many might believe that we carry bombs in our pockets and constantly think about war and destruction. It is the responsiblity of all of us as Americans to try to understand each other and to keep an open mind, but with all that we see and hear about Muslims, it's just so hard to do. As an American Muslim, I work hard to educate others on the true nature of Islam. That we believe in Jesus, just not as the son of God. That women aren't inferior to men. That jihad does not mean war or suicide. However with so many people and not enough Muslims to spread our true beliefs, all of the lies taint America's vision of Islam. An injustice which we should all work hard to fight off.



Very interesting and its good to a point of view from a person who has had the experience. In response, i do fell sorry that Americans treat other americans this way, but i have to admit that although I try hard to to be stereotypical, i naturally feel rather awkward when i see a person with a headscarf.. I dont think this is because i am taken aback by a muslim being present, but it does seem out-of-place and beyond normal because I do not see this often. I feel bad that you may be treated differently but its the same with a little child who sees someone disable and acts unknowingly;y rude because this is uncommon to him or her.
I notice that I look at people wearing the head scarfs because they are diffrent from what I am use to seeing and I am a curious person. I know it might be rude but glancing away and acting falsly natural is twice as rude. I never knew how diffrent or similar we are to each other until I spent a few weeks with a man from Saudi and helped him learn english.
I am glad you wrote this very opening blog. Thank you
Love is like a box of chocolates; if you chose wisely you won’t be disappointed and have to spit it out. ~T
http://progressiveu.org/225544-corruption-innocence-saudi-experience
That's great that you were willing to open up about attitudes towards Muslims, as a Muslim. Now I don't know all that much about Islam, but what I do know is that those jihadists fighting America and their coalition in the Middle East represent only one tiny sect of Islam as a whole, and that the religion as a whole is just as peaceful as Christianity or Judaism.
I hope that someday people will recognize this and stop lumping all Muslims together into the same category!
We, as humans, have a 'problem' with lumping people and things together in over generalized categories, don't we.
http://progressiveu.org/225544-corruption-innocence-saudi-experience
Love is like a box of chocolates; if you chose wisely you won’t be disappointed and have to spit it out. ~T