Why Cant You Be Who You Are!!!!!?????

WHY IS EVERYBODY GAY!!!!!!!!!! i have nothing againt homosexuality if thats who u really are but today 2 many ppl are gay for no reason.following behind their peers the people who they want to be excepted by.but why does it matter.why do ppl allow others to dictate who u are and wat u want to be.too many ppl today are "actin" gay because they friends are gay.or they see other ppl doin it and they feel if thats the thing thats the trend they gotta do so too.i jus dont understand.i kno ppl who 4 17 years of life have never like girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!never a day in there life talked about a girl.liked a girl.jus never was gay.and then they let someone dictate who they are and let them tell them who they want to be and last year of high school they like girls.it makes no sense to me.why cant u jus be who r are?????????????everyone is their own person.all unique and handcrafted by God.of course we are only human and we have desires.lusty nasty freaky thoughts.lol.its ok 2 be who you are.thats wha God wants!!!!!He wants us to be individuals and live our life so that one day we may join Him and His Son in eternal paradise.thats why were all different.so wats wrong with being yourself!!???if you've never liked a girl a day in ur life why are u going to be gay.now theres a difference if 4 a very long time u felt as though u have always been attracted to girls.thats who you are then.your gay and u like girls.or boys.wateva.but u never been witha girl before.never liked a girl before.wat. . . are you just looking to be in the in crowd? or are you curious.its human nature to be curious.but why are u so curious.cuz of your friends.do you really like girls.are u really gay?i kno too many ppl who were "in-school only" gays and then when it came time to leave those school doors its back to their other personality i guess.u cant be gay only in school.to me its only to things.your either gay or your not.no in between.no jus in school.not just until college.your gay or your not.i just think ppl need to stop with the popularity and fitting in thing.i mean its ok to want to be liked and have friends but if u cant be who you really are then the people you keep company with really arent your friends.friends are people who love and accept you no matter wat!!!!!!!!they respect your ideas and opinions and got your back wen its bout dat time to act out cuz whores wan act stupid.lol.but if you cant be yourself with them.they are not your friends.i jus think ppl should be who they are.be crazy.be stupid.be loud.enjoy life.because life is too short to worry about bein cool!!!!!!

drifterdani6886's picture
Member of the Progressive U Alumni Association

I have never encountered people who act gay that aren't some people have gay tendancies but they are not gay. I think you might just be alittle confused or maybe I'm the confused one. The slang terms are not helping me understand your blog and the point you are really trying to get across.

I hate to be so mean but next time you post please space out your text in paragraphs similar to how this comment is. And please don't use slang terms. Proper grammar like people instead of ppl is good. I am not trying to be rude just trying to help you out so you don't have to hear it from someone else.

http://www.progressiveu.org/032913-lupus-uncureable-wait-what
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no honey im not confused.you just dont understand.and thats ok.i go to an all girls public school so not everyone will understand where im getn at.so yea. . . n theres nothing wrong with the slang i use.thats just how i feel.im going to write how i feel and say what i mean.but i do understand what u are saying about breaking the paragraphs up, it make it easier to read so your right i will change that.but thank you for your advice i do respect that very much.thank you.

KrisanMD's picture

Bad grammar does not equal feelings. So don't say you use slang because it is how you feel.

Another thing, Dani only said maybe she as confused to be nice. She isn't confused.

Après la pluie le beau temps.

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well 4real.i say what i want and i talk how i want and i say what i mean.i dont do so to affend anyone but thats the way it is.sorry u aint like it.and what does slang or grammar have to do with the message or the story im trying to explain.Nothing!!!!so sorry u feel that way.o well not my problem with all due respect.thanks 4 the comment.

tezz's picture

To me I want to be MYSELF, the true me, no mask. FULL FACE ME. But sometimes its hard. I know that I should only trust those except me for who I am, but for some reason i'm always questioning whether its true or not. It's like I feel like they are all playing a joke on me behind my back. I dont' know, for some reason I just have this feeling that, if I do something Unexpected, they'll all turn on me and abandon me. I also feel EXTREMELY LUCKY that I have the friends that I have, so i'm surprised and honored; however that also makes me feel like its too good to be true. I'm not pretending and I found amazing friends. Its just so SURREAL.

I know i'm loved for who I am, and that they are my TRUE friends. But I still feel like it almost too good to be true.

thank you for reading the message and understanding the story.everyone else is too concerned with the grammar n all to really get what im trying to say.thanks for reading my 1st blog n good luck n best wishes!!
Sincerely,
Danieedouglas09

Jsaj's picture
Volunteer for the Progressive U Alumni Association

If you want any sort of success on this site, please use proper spelling and grammar.

"Don't blame me. I voted for Kodos."
Homer Simpson

i understand what you are saying about the proper grammar.but its a blog.and in a blog u say how u feel u say it how it is.using slang and internet slang is jus apart of me writing it how it is.there were no rules stating the need of proper grammar.rules for proper grammar were only stated for the case of the banned book point oppurtunity.so with all due respect how i write is how i feel.but that was my first blog on the site im new to the site so you can expect some improvement. i was more reaching toward people like me and people my age.thats how we talk.i know this isnt myspace or anything so yes i will change some things, but at the end i write how i feel.
Respectfully,
Danieedouglas09

Jsaj's picture
Volunteer for the Progressive U Alumni Association

Look around you. Haw many other people on this site use internet slang? The answer is almost none. You can write what you feel and how you feel, but if you continue writing like that, you will find that you won't get a lot of reads.

"Don't blame me. I voted for Kodos."
Homer Simpson

ard ok get ova it.i aint use proper grammar.so wat.i dont care it u dont like it.i accepted wat u had 2 say and that was that.im sorry u aint like ma blog.u dnt have 2 read it.i accepted ur advice and even thanked u.move on please.i aint force u to read ma blog.im sorry u aint enjoy it and the grammar was all that mattered.thanks for the comment.
ttyl-internet slang 4 talk 2 u later
Danieedouglas09

by the way u said "haw many. . . " so how bout u proofread n go over your tying errors before u come attack mine.check ur grammar b4 u make a post.i'll be doin so 4 now on.
Peace, Love -N- Sneaks
Danieedouglas09

KrisanMD's picture

Ha. Ha. Thanks for the laugh!

Après la pluie le beau temps.

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Welcome Babes!
Peace, Love -N-Sneaks!!
Danieedouglas09

Jsaj's picture
Volunteer for the Progressive U Alumni Association

Indeed. Especially embarrassing when asking someone not to use internet slang, but an occasional misspelled word doesn't make a blog anywhere near as hard to read as using a lot of internet slang and poor grammar.
But, whatever. It's your choice.

"Don't blame me. I voted for Kodos."
Homer Simpson

ediblewoman's picture
Volunteer for the Progressive U Alumni Association

My question for you is (and this is not an attack, but something for you to really think about), who are you to say who they really are? When I was a young teenager, I would not have been able to tell anyone I liked girls. I was too busy trying to be like everyone else. By the time I was 17, I knew for sure that liking boys just wasn't going to happen, but I still didn't tell anyone, because I had a terribly unsupportive environment. I hid it until I was out of the house. I didn't change when I came out. I was finally honest. So maybe your friends ARE being who they are.

And if they aren't (because I have known some LUGs--lesbian until graduation), so what? Sexuality is fluid for some people. This is who they are right now. What good does it do you to question how they feel? You can't know what is in their heads or hearts.

http://www.progressiveu.org/blog/ediblewoman

late reply havent had a computer. . . but thanks for your view and your comment i get where your coming from.thanks for reading the message and giving your opinion.
Peace, Love N Sneaks
Danieedouglas09

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