No.
See how easy it is to say that? No. It's not difficult at all. It's only one syllable, two measly letters...so why in the hell is it so hard to say.
Instead of a nice simple no...i get "well i want to, but this, and this, but i'd still love to but this, this, and this this..." OMFG just get to the point. You aren't fooling anyone... you're just like every other girl i've dated...it's not like you've invented something new...just give me a straight answer for once.
You know...us guys don't have this problem...we are simple when we need to be(and sometimes a bit too often...but thats a different story)...but a girls couldn't give you a straight answer to save her life...
What's worse is you talk like i don't know you...like you're sparing me from the "grisly details" of your life...well guess what...I KNOW. We've been together for 7 months...do you seriously think i haven't learned some things by now...I KNOW you still have feelings for your ex...but I ALSO KNOW he's an asshole who doesn't deserve to lick the bottom of your shoes for everything he put you through...
I KNOW...and yet...I don't say a word...how could I...I can't make you love me...I can't...i'm helpless here...please...just end it quickly...just hurry up and end it...cause God knows i could never do it myself...please...
i love you baby
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Guys do too have that problem. That's one of the reasons my relationship ended... he couldn't tell me the truth... about what he felt, about what he was doing... and would avoid giving me a straight answer for many things, to the point of doing everything he could to distract me from the question.
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What are you doing man? You shouldnt be wasting your time with this girl. If she still has feelings for her ex, then let her go. It shouldnt be hard for you, you're the fella remember! Women always make everything complicated. You know what is complicated? Calculus. You know what isnt? Relationships.
lol...calculus is easy man...just aced my exam too...and it's a bit more complicated than that...i left some important stuff out(actually went back and deleted some stuff) cause i just don't feel right saying it in public...even if no one knows who we are...but bottom line is I love her...and above that I care about her...and that means doing everything i can to keep her away from her ex...i'm not gonna explain any more in that direction...but just trust me...i'm trying my best to keep her safe...
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"Speech is conveniently located midway between thought and action, where it often substitutes for both."
-John Andrew Holmes
Okay so I know many guys that can't give straight answers when I want them.
But yes many guys have told me just to give a straight honest answer, but it is sooooo hard when you are scared to be open with someone scared to be hurt again. Guys just need to be more sensitive.
But then again why the hell are you dating someone that you know is in love with their ex? I mean i have done it once and it hurt to much when it ended even though we were only together 3 months. She was the reason we broke up. The ex that is.
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