People that judge people by they way they look, which everyone does, is so wrong. I know i do it but only to a certain extent. I do not stop giving people respect because of the way they look, dress, speak, or seem. Respect is very important to me, and I give it to everyone. So why do people have to be so judgemental to the point where they stop giving their respect, and yet they expect the person to give them respect back. That is pure insecurity. People think they are so superior to others, when really they are the same or less of a good person than the person they think is below them. Teenagers have turned into brutal idiots that make people commit suicide, because of their rudeness. Just because a person does'nt look a certain way, like everyone else, does that mean you should treat them differently . No. But, everyone does. They don't look like you so you act as if they are below you.
You have to deal with all t ypes of people in life so why not learn to deal with the different types now.
Its easy to deal with people that share your interests, but what if those "different" people really shared the same interests but you never gave them a chance because you were too judgemental and th ought they were below your certain level.
















I believe that this is directly to me. I'd like to apologize just a little bit. I'm thinking you're not respecting me which is alright. I'm not perfect, so I'll say that everything I say just might be a little bit more injust than I would like to think.
But, I think our tendency to be judgemental is a necessary survival habit. Their are times when you do have to decide in a split second that someone is up to no good and act on it. It's true some of this may be based on judgements and stereotypes like that the person is wearing dark clothing. But that person may really be about ready to rob you and that's why you have a creeped out feeling, it's hard to tell. I don't necessarily pay attention to why I get bad vibes about certain people like that I shouldn't be alone with them.
I guess what I'm really trying to say is that I think if we really want to be honest with ourselves we've got to stop thinking about judgement as the thing that's wrong, and start thinking of disrespect as the thing that's wrong. You make a great point there's no reason to be disrespectful to someone else just because of how they appear. But, I'm not entirely opposed to judging people as bad as that may sound.