In school today student are under enough pressure. Challenging courses, tryouts-rejections, bad grades struggle to understand. Constant pressure to be yourself make yourself mold yourself but at the same time fit in with everyone else. Then there is social problems. They want students to intermingle be social, date have fun. But when does the girl in school go from a fun loving girl living life to a slut. At what age is sex okay after how long and is marriage a requirement. In schools today, every girl wants to be noticed we want guys to like us and we want to do things that feel good. Is sex wrong because of its consequences?.....I have been dating the same guy for two years and three months to date, I am an 18 year old female, if I have a healthy sex life would you consider me a slut. what if I had only dated a guy for 3 months or 10 years but still wasnt married. I marriage a requirement of sex? I believe that as long as you are willing to accept the consequences of your actions it is your choice what you do.In school now a days many people are having sex in high schools some are brave enough to admit it but others hide it in shame. Why do something if you are ashamed of it. I think sex is a healthy way to get exercise, relieve stress, and enjoy yourself ..if you are prepared for the consequences. Are you being safe. Are you in a serious relationship? these things come into play but if you ar eyoung and just want to have fun there is nothing wrong with that.
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What are the consequences of having sex? What if one of them is being considered a slut? You, yourself, voiced opposition to being called that. Another consequence is having children, and I know most people aren't ready for that. I don't judge people, guys or girls, who have had sex. I have friends who often do have sex...quite often...I've walked in on friends having sex and honestly, it doesn't bother me. I've dated several people who aren't virgins, but I am. You say people who are willing to face the consequences of sex should be allowed to have it, but most people my age haven't even thought about the consequences and that's what bothers me. Not that they're having sex, but that they don't think about what else might happen because they are enjoying themselves. I don't believe marriage is a requirement for sex, but thinking what is going to happen next should be.
"Even after all this time, the Sun never says to the Earth 'you owe me!' Look what happens with a love like that, it lights up the whole sky."
-Hafiz
I think that teenagers in high school are definatley pressured into several different things for several different reasons. But there are several different reasons as to why kids have sex when they do. Some people just do it to do it, some do it because they think its a right of passage once they are in a relationship, Some do it because they are pressured by their partner to do so and just many more reasons.
I mean today, younger kids before you know it are out there having sex and not knowing what the consequences are and what could happen. Some people may just follow up to par with the peers that they happen to admire. Teenagers have major effects on younger kids as well as adults having effects on teens.
I have been dating this guy for a year and 4 months and we haven't had sex once. I have never had sex and neither has he and he is 21 and I'm almost 18. Does that qualify us as being "losers" as people would say. Im not ashamed to admit that I still have my virginity. In my personal opinion and beliefs..sex should wait until you are married. Also, it is proved that if you wait till you are married..you will have better sex. But thats just me. Other people may think that they "love" their boyfriend or girlfriend and then something as special as that happens and boom! What happens to the relationship? the girl gets pregnant, the guy thinks the girl is a whore, etc. Then your conscience and regrets come into play.
If the people having sex can deal with themselves and know the consequences and still have sex then thats none of my business. Even though I dont agree. If teenagers are out there having sex just to have sex I think thats ignorant. Having sex is supposed to be a special thing between the person you love and yourself. Having Sex/ making love for the first time is a special, compassionate thing and shouldnt just be bounced around like nothing at all.
The bible states best why sex is for marriage. If you have been having sex for years with your partner sex will not be special on your wedding night. It will be just like any other night. You want to be special and pure for your husband. Its like shaking up a soda can, u keep shaking it and some soda will spill out. After a while it wont spill anymore. Its the same with sex. You wont have anything left for your husband. Its just wat i think. But sure if ur willing to accept the consequeces, hey do u! and u most def shouldnt be having sex if u cant even talk about it!
Jay
lol I can't say much about this since I've never done it with anyone officially. I think if you want to have sex, go ahead. It's your body. You know how to take care of yourself so...I don't see why people would want to stop you since yo already know the consequences. I'm not even sure if I should consider myself lucky to be one of very few people who stay a virgin throughout high school. haha.
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