I need more friends. It's as simple as that. I mean i have friends. Everybody has friends. But i have two very close friends. Two best friends i guess you could call them. but i feel like they arn't good for me. they are great friends, dont get me wrong. but...Well... ok to tell the truth i got dumped. Bad. It has crushed me, torchered me, and i havent been able to move on very well. Im doing my best but one of the things im doing is spending a LOT of time with my friends. Thats good right? well it sounds good in theory but when i hang out with my two best friends, they both have boyfriends. and they have been really supportive for me these past weeks but its so hard to not think about "him" when they are texting their boyfriends, and talking about them. Or worse, they invite them over and we all hang out together. The perfect couple and me... the dumped, lonely, depressed best friend. My friends are awsome, i love them more then anything but i need a single girl. Someone who will go out with me for a night and talk about everything except stupid boys. someone who will drive over to go do something spontanious without having to call their boyfriends first to ask if they can cancel their previous plans. I need a friend who will be able to go to the mall with me and have a compition to get as many guys phone numbers as possilbe without saying "well i have so and so and he is already amazing".
Im putting out an add! anyone who fits these requirements and wants to be my friend PLEASE comment me, write to me, smoke singnal me or something. I need a single friend that i can talk to without thinking about my past.
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I'll be your friend! I do have a boyfriend and he lives with me. I don't talk about him all the time. I don't have anything good or bad to say about him. There are other important issues to talk with friends about. Making sure they are ok, having fun. You don't have to be clinging to your boyfriend and constantly talking about him. You already have him...it is pointless to talk about him constantly. This of course is just my opinion. How old are your friends? It sounds like they are younger because I am not like this at all. Maybe they are just different than me. I don't know I have made friends on here but in real life I don't have any. They all screwed me over.
I know I don't fit your description as single but like I said before friendships don't include boyfriends. But if you don't want to talk then I understand. :)
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thanks for responding to my slightly pathetic blog. lol. i just am so tired of having the same two friends who have had the same boyfriends for so long. like my ex and i went out for almost 2 years and we were all friends, so its really hard to still see my friends and not have that couple thing going on. but yeah im 17 and so are they. so idk how old you are but we might sound a little immature because we kinda still are kids. but yeah i just want some more friends to talk about stuff OTHER then boys. lol
I wasn't trying to offend you at all by saying your friend's sounded immature about always talking about their boyfriends. Sorry. lol. I guess I am just alittle bit more mature than alot of people from what I have gone through. Not to say you aren't.
A boyfriend shouldn't define who you are and I understand what it is like to be the lonely wing when all of them have boyfriends. One of my friend's would say we were just going to spend time together then we would stay at her boyfriend's house all day or he would come over and spend the night. I found that sooo rude. If you are with your friend's then it is friend time. My friend put her boyfriend's before me. Be careful of this.
I am 20 years old. Watched my mom pass away when I was 18, near your age. I don't consider you a kid. Kid's are naive and your not that way. Vern would be a great friend too. Like she said we talk to each other on a daily basis and are good friends. :) It is always good to have someone older to talk to. I am not using this to my advantage I just know from experience from myself speaking with older people. They have gone through it so they normally know what happens next.
You always want to focus on yourself before finding someone else. :)
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ohh no i wasnt thinking that you thought me or my friends were immature at all. im just saying that i am more mature then them sometimes but i know im still a kid and thats why i cant get that mad at them. we are young and i know that when i had a bf he was my life and i talked about him w. my friends around too. they arnt rude inviting their bfs along all the time but we used to hang out as couples and so im friends with both of them... it just sucks that they kiss and stuff while im around. but again what can i do about it. i dont want to become a B**** about it.... so i just suck it up then vent it out here. lol
but yeah i deff like talking to you. im sorry to hear about your mom, but again everything happens for a reason and it made you stronger. it hurt you, more then i will every know, but it made you who you are today. and im glad that now you are able to share your advice to me. =]
you can email me if you chat more. jms1211@comcast.net. =]
ohh no i wasnt thinking that you thought me or my friends were immature at all. im just saying that i am more mature then them sometimes but i know im still a kid and thats why i cant get that mad at them. we are young and i know that when i had a bf he was my life and i talked about him w. my friends around too. they arnt rude inviting their bfs along all the time but we used to hang out as couples and so im friends with both of them... it just sucks that they kiss and stuff while im around. but again what can i do about it. i dont want to become a B**** about it.... so i just suck it up then vent it out here. lol
but yeah i deff like talking to you. im sorry to hear about your mom, but again everything happens for a reason and it made you stronger. it hurt you, more then i will every know, but it made you who you are today. and im glad that now you are able to share your advice to me. =]
you can email me if you chat more. jms1211@comcast.net. =]
Yeah, Dani will be your friend, and so will I. And she doesn't talk about the boy all the time. I don't have one and don't want one right now, I have too much on my plate at the moment. This is a really great place to make friends because unlike myspace or facebook, here people aren't all about stabbing you in the back and having the most friends, you get to see another side of people. I can say gladly that two of the people I talk to the most (and go to for advice) I met here. One being Dani. You'll be fine and I'm sure you'll meet lots of interesting people here.
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Do you find it odd that you are not as strong as you once thought?
lol thanks. yeah i like it here on this website. a lot of people post interesting things on their blogs. even though its only been a few days i like it. it is a lot better then a myspace or facebook (even though i have both lol) but its people all with basically the same interests. its cool.
And good for you not to want a boyfriend. you dont need one anyways =]
I quit using myspace. I love it here too, I know that I'll still be active here long after the scholarship deal is over.
It was actually someone here (power_kord) that doesn't get on here anymore that made me realize I didn't need a boyfriend right now. He's also one of my really great friends that I talk to almost daily that I met here.
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Do you find it odd that you are not as strong as you once thought?
thats cool. i still use a myspace and facebook but i really like this place a lot more. did you do the scholarship thing too? im not quite sure how it works lol
Well, yes that is how I found the site, but I know that even when it's over I'm going to keep blogging here. It's a great way to learn things and express things.
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Do you find it odd that you are not as strong as you once thought?
yes it is=]