People who change their underwear as often as they do their boyfriends and best friends.

ca8tylady33's picture

So is it just me or do some people literally switch either their best friend or their boyfriend every week?

Example 1: Ashley is dating Troy this week and next week she is dating some guy named Justin, and Troy is dating some freshman named Alyssa?

Example 2: Teresa and Megan are inseperable this week but, next week that are not speaking, Megan is glued to Jenny's hip, and Tereas is glued to Danyell, yet when they pass each other in the hall, there is an exchange of a dirty look and a large display of eye rolling.

Those are very fictional names and events, but I have literally witnessed those exact events and I wonder how people display such an act of flakiness? Each week they decide that their current best friend or boyfriend is just not cool enough and that they need some void to fill in the lack of excitement, so they kick the current best friend out and get someone more exciting? And, when asked why they are not speaking, one says the other was boring, and the other has no idea?

I personally feel for the girls and guys who have been dumped by their best friend, who suggested they were lacking, when in fact the person who decides to have a new best friend each week, possibly someone, a stranger, the dumping friend is the lacking friend, feeling as if friendship has to change and be more excitable each week. It is peculiar to me.

The shortest best friend friendship I've ever had, is just this year, after basically being dumped for some things that just weren't her and something they felt needed to be included in their life, being a lesbian, and irresponsible things like the examples following (i.e., alcohol, drugs, and staying out alll night) in fact when the year started, almost instantly I was blessed with a new best friend, whom I knew from last year, and we instantly connected and consider each other best friends, and Marie is more than 100% capable of replacing and is more mature, fun, and responsible than the previous best friend of 2 1/2 years.

It is odd how people feel that a friendship is lacking because something exciting and amazing doesn't happen every second. Marie and I are Hustler Ninjas, ha. I mean, considering the circumstances and the hurt I've felt towards the said past best friend, it was odd how I connected with someone and earned her trust and also gave my trust in return. Marie is funny, a dork, honest, she listens, she entertains me, and she's happy just spending time with me at lunch and in gym and just talking.

It is peculiar to me how someone can throw away a friendship just because they find something more interesting, like people who were great friends as little kids, and now have grown apart because one felt the other was not "Cool enough."

On to the boyfriend subject: I don't understand how girls always have a new boyfriend every few days or weeks? Yet everytime they date someone new, they are all like "He is perfect, and I love him, and he is just amazing" and then they say the same thing about next weeks flavor of the week?

How can you love someone for a few days and then date someone else a few days later and love them too? and on and on and on, it's an ongoing cycle of delusion. Personally, a lot of girls really need to take their selves to the luney bin. I don't believe in the words "I love you" too much anymore because they are so outplayed, everytime a girl dates a guy for a little while, she "loves" him and everytime you make a new friend, and they offend you they're all like "I looovee you!!" which is a bunch of crap, just a replacement for the words, I'm Sorry.

I'm sorry but, people "I love you" is suppost to be special, not some overused phrase used daily for two week lustful relationships and stupid people who say it because they are too prideful and egotistical to say "I'm Sorry." I love you is supposed to be the phrase for emotions of real love and romantical feelings, the thing that makes you long to be without someone, the thing that would urge you in a second to give your own life to save that person, the person you see yourself growing old with, the person who you want to spend and take care of your whole life, the one person who the world still turns, and everything but else and everyone else in life goes on but, you.

Think before you say "I Love You" and before you say it, make certain you really feel that way, don't be another person who snuffs out the sentimence and special aspects of those three words, that someone who is really in love, had the courage to say and put their selves on the line, not knowing whether or not the other person felt the same way.

Please, I know this is corny, but think before you speak, you could really hurt someone and you could also forever make I love you just another common phrase used by America daily, without strings attached. It's like having friends with benefits, hooking up without strings or emotional commitment involved.

Thanks for Listening =) This has been blogging with Caity =) Have a Great Night =) 

comradesquirrel's picture

"something completely irresponsible and something they felt needed to be included in their life (i.e. lesbianism, alcohol, drugs, and staying out alll night)"

your post has a really good point, but it really bothers me that in your list of things that are "irresponsible" you put "lesbianism." what does someone's sexual preference have anything to do with personal responsibility?

--stacie

ca8tylady33's picture

I didn't mean that the lesbianism part was irresponsible, that was the thing she felt that she needed to include in her life, I'm sorry I should have made it more clear, as soon as she started hanging out with this girl who was a lesbian, she was one all of a sudden too, it was like she was her clone. I'm sorry =)

Caity =)

SOO TRUE! i hate when people change their friends or boyfriends that much!

ca8tylady33's picture

Amen! Your preaching to the Choir!! haha.

Caity =)

In my school it was pretty much a fad to be a lesbian or bi. And, every week it looked as if they switched partners in this big group of theirs .

It's pretty sick.

ca8tylady33's picture

Pretty much.

Caity =)

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