The funny thing about time, is it takes many forms.
What in the hell do you mean by that Shawn?
Well I'm saying, as poetic as it may sound, that time just has it's own way of making things the way that they should be.
Time has different forms as I stated in the begining. They are as follows:
1. Anticipation
2. Desperation
3. Happiness/Pain
4. Past/Present/Future
5. Closure
Keep in mind, that these are in no particular order.
Anticipation
We sometimes have a invent in our lives that we look forward to happen. It could be a single event or multiple events. It could be something as small as your favorite TV show that will be back next week or something as big as your high school/college graduation. It keeps us on edge can't wait what happens next. Wishing the months, weeks, days, hours will pass by quickly.
Desperation
This is when you find yourself wishing that the months, weeks, days and hours will pass. You may be a point or time in your life where nothing seems right. It seems like everything and everyone seems to be against you. For example, you may just broke up with that special person in your life and all the days after this event just too unberable and time seems to drag.
Happiness/Pain
You can feel time either brings you happiness or pain. It depends on your outlook on life. It's an old cliche, but it depends if you look at the cup half full or half empty?
Past/Present/Future
You can be a person that constantly lives in the past. Yesterday holds so many fond memories that it is so hard to let go of them. It's way more comfortable to stay there, no matter how detached you are from the present.
Others may live only for the present, only caring about the now. No plans or hope for the future.
Then on the flip side you have those who don't take any time to enjoy the present because thy are too busy planning the future.
The most important part is to find the balance between the three.
Memories (good or bad) helps form the person that you are in the future. You must learn to enjoy the time that you have in the future, but also make time to properly prepare for the future.
Closure
Time has it's way to heal, if you allow it. However you don't know how or when you will completely heal but you will. As I stated before in another post, closure is like a cut, just give it time and it will heal.




People say a well healedwound is the one which is given time to heal itself ok,and i agree with you and your points but what rings in my head is that not tyhe memories define us or our future either but the present is what defines us.
*shiko*