Divorce is a struggle, not only between the ex-spouses, but the innocent children as well. People don't understand how traumatizing it can actually be on a person no matter the age. Alot of kids go through emotional and physical changes once divorce takes its toll.
Some kids take divorce fakely, as in they have a "don't care" attitude and act like it has effected them little. Indeed it has effected them though. They change their personality and views upon such events. Others take it in an unstable manner. Kids I know have cut and abused themselves and quit eating, and others have uncontrollable temper problems and are so confused about what's really going on. Sometimes divorce is for the best, but it should be explained better at an early stage of the child's life (my opinion). Counseling and honesty are neccessity for divorce situations. If all the child is getting out of this is a lie, than what good does that do them in their future?
After divorce there is always one parent left to struggle while the other one goes on with life merrily and they live a fantasy. It's unfair, but nothing can change that. Child support and who pays what is a big challenge. Money shouldn't be such a huge deal to divorce more than sharing of custody and knowing both your parents, but it is.
All I got for a first post. I really don't get this thing very well. We will see how it goes though.
Any suggestions or help is welcomed.
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