Ok i know we are blogging for Proggress, but this is progress...kinda...
If you belive in God or Fate you will probably understand this more. However if you don't your opinion would still be nice too. I was going through a really hard time when i met this great guy. I mean he treated me different from any other guy. I mean I was so happy with him, we went to prom and then the beach...and then it was over. However 3 weeks after our prom he called me and we went to the lake and had a great time talking and catching up on how each other was doing. It has been 4 weeks since he called since the lake trip and i have been trying really hard to find a reason to be mad at him so i wouldn't think of him as much. It doesn't work if I say something bad, I never mean it and I always feel like a major but hole because in all honesty, I don't think he ever ment to hurt me. He called me today, but I missed the phone call and hvaen't been able to get up with him.
So one of my friends has tried to introduce me to a new guy. But everytime we go to meet, something happens and one of us doesn't show up. Its been like 3 times now and I wonder if thats a sign. Also around the time i am supposed to meet him, this other guy comes back into the picture. Meeting people would be nice, but I have alot of feelings for the guy I talk about up above. But also my parents really like the first guy, I mean we were going on a cruise that they were paying for and giving US spending money so we could go somewhere special. They said that if we could make it till Christmas that they would book a 2nd crusie since the first one was cancelled the day it was put on reservations. My dad even wants him to come on the family vacation.
My parents are not like this at all. I don't know what to do, I want to be able to be with the first guy, but I don't want to be hurt agian. But I know either way more than likely with whoever i chose i will be hurt agian sometime. Meeting the new guy doesn't seem like a bad idea either, its just really confusing. If you would offer your advice it would be a great help to me.
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One word. TAKE A GUY BREAK! Why are you so desperate to get another guy? Whatever will happen will happen. Don't snatch the fly, let it fly to you. You are pretty sure you like him, so wait a while. A month maybe. Don't waste your time trying to get him back. Let him come to you. Maybe join a hobby or a club to stop thinking about it. A relationship is nice, but you must also spend your time doing other things. Luck to you!
Well put. I agree, take a break.
Thanks guys, I know what you mean, it would just be eaiser if the first guy wouldn't call everytime i almost get over him. And my friend has been trying to introduce me to this guy before i met the first one. I don't know its complecating. But i apreciate the advice, I may just lay off