This is my first post as I am a new member. I feel there are so many topics I wish to discuss but I don't know how to start.
I figured this would be a good topic as it has been on my mind all day.
I come from a family that identifies with the Republican party and conservative ideals. I myself don't identify with a party, though I often agree with the conservative point of view. Either way, my political affiliation is irrelevant. What concerns me is how ignorant and close-minded my family is. I fear it is due in great part to the fact that they never received a higher education, and the only point of view they know is their own. They make comments that are racist or homophobic and I don't think they know that they are against the status quo or politically incorrect.
I am not sure if this is common to others in my age range. I would love to discuss this more and I don't have enough time now to do the topic justice. It just really irks me. I love every member of my family dearly, and I appreciate the fact that we often have different points of view on issues. It is just so hard to listen to some of the things they say without asking if they realize how offensive they are. It just saddens me. I would never want them to indirectly offend others, but I'm coming to realize that when I am not there, it is quite possible that they do.
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I think I can relate to you a little. My mom isn't very opinionated when it comes to politics, and my dad does his research on policies. I don't consider either of them to be ignorant. But my grandparents . . . my grandfather is super opinionated when it comes to politics. The problem is, his positions often strike me as super ignorant, but I feel awkward saying that because I often disagree with him on policies.
And calling someone you disagree with ignorant is really bad form. I just wish he would research his opinions. So many people just toe the party line.
Yes exactly, my aunt is certainly that way. My grandmother is as well. They believe what they are told, and they reiterate such views without question.
But I agree, just because I do not concur with their views or I think they are inaccurate or incorrect, I still do not feel it is my place to argue with them. If nothing else, I respect them too much to do such.
I just wish they knew what I do, knew to question opinions.
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Er, then why not educate them? Or do you come from a family that believes that because you are a younger member, your views are not valid? x.x
They most certainly believe in the validity of my ideas, but they are not apt to listen. It is more so the point that they do not want to hear about ideas that disagree with their own, and when I do attempt to correct them they see me as being disrespectful.
They all praise my intelligence and that of our generation, but when I offer them an alternative or updated point of view they don't really care to know.
You bring up a good point though, I think I should try to open their eyes a bit, or at least improve their narrow mindedness, I just do not want to do it in a way that is disrespectful, rude, or condenscending.
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