Are teens ready for love? How can you tell when someone is? the only person to say and decide whether he or she is in love is that person. I never actually imagined myself to fall in love and at such a young age. You see other relationships at school and can't help to wonder whether they are in love. I bet people can see right through my relationship. Its more than just attraction more that just someone to have. Its real. Something i didn't think that i could have but something that now i do have. I am surprised though. I mean falling for a friend and for a real close and good friend. The lack of support of care of my former friends led me to find something new and precious in a new one. my parents think i am young but they don't know how i feel. I know how I feel, HE knows how HE feels. there's no doubt between us. Other relationships are mere flukes or just teases. Someone to get pleasure from? Only those people don't know what love is or how to describe it. I am glad to say that i know what it is and how it feels.
LOVE!
I agree that some people do not know the meaning of love. I have friends who say they are in love everytime they get a new boyfriend.
absolutely true. i had a former friend who always said that and in the end she just wanted to kill herself, when they just went out for what a week or two?? lol yea right
Yes, it is hard standing by a friend who cries every time something is going wrong in her relationship when you try to explain that she can not be in love after she has known a guy for little while. I have a friend who is going out with a guy and she is too in love with him to listen to me when I tell her something is wrong about him. I caught him holding hands with another girl happily. She asked him about it and he came up with an excuse. Now, my other friends have pictures of him kissing another girl, but I hope they are convincing enough that she can do better.
I would have to agree with you on everything you said! I hate when I see couples that hardly know each other acting like they're head over heels in love. It makes teenage relationships that ARE worth something look like a lot less than what they are. For example: I started dating Jake my freshman year of high school, I'd liked him since 7th grade and not just because he was cute, because I liked his personality. I waited two whole years of being "just friends" before I would ask him out. The last thing I wanted was to be another teenage statistic, I wanted something REAL.
Considering that I believe in abstinence my friends and his friends all said we'd never last. Either we'd break up because I wouldn't have sex with him or break up because I had sex with him. But boy were they wrong! Jake respected me and we both remain pure to this day.
Now, we're both college students, engaged, planning our wedding, and still very very much in love!
Don't let ANYONE tell you you're too young to love... I've been in love with a boy since 7th grade and that will never change.