Not all problems are created by guys in the world of dating and sex lives. Girls also must be willing partners otherwise what turns into one hot and wild night can become months of an enduring rape case trial. I have seen the outcomes of both in my few short years at our high school and I am hear to say that neither is overrated, and neither is underated. Both are right where the belong of everyones own idividual scale of imporatance.
First of I will admit I am not a huge partier. I do like to have my share of fun, and have my own stories, none of which have ever been heard around the rumor mill but rather kept on the Down Low. Secondly, my school is well known for its drinking and smoking abilities although we are mainly a white middle class district. The stories that I will share are nothing short of shocking and revealing.
Case 1: There is a wild party at a friends house over the weekend. There is alcohol in everyones hand and everying is having sex. There are no parents around, obviously, but there is one 5th grader at this high school party. Rather than stick out like a sore thumb she joins in the festivities and finds herself getting her stomach pumped the next moring. What is found is disturbing by my account, 8 oz. of cum, and lots of vodka as so rumored to be the case. And gets worse. The guys she had sex with, 11th grade and 10th grade. A little young for a threesome I would say.
Case 2: There is a girl who is well known to be a high upstanding christian at our school. She was considered a sweetheart and the good girl untill two weeks when her true life came out on a cell phone video tape. Two boys in her grade recorded it and she had no idea. She was bragging how wasted she was that weekend, first time I heard her say but then went on to tell me, in confidence, that she was a huge partier on the DL. I kept my mouth shut untill two weeks after this incident I will call it occurs at a hotel party while she was drunk, shows up. Rumors are flying off the handle and this girls runs to the bathroom in tears. I know I should feel bad for her but I do not once I see what the commotion is about. A sex tape of her a 14 yr old and a senior 18 yrs old is being passed on heavily. Not only do students have it but some teachers have seen it. She has no idea about the teachers yet, but I am sure she will find out. She is laying butt naked on a bed and then the older girl comes and starts pleasuring her with her tongue and fingers. It is very vigorous work by the sounds and looks of it.
Case 3: My best friends rape case
This is more personall and i have to take sometime to think about this one but i will post this seperately as soon as I know how to put it nicely.
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You seem to be posting a whole lot of blogs at once.
Sometimes I just need to vent and this is where I do it.
Though I understand your need to vent, and I see how this can be a sad, yet common issue, please remember that this is not a diary web page.
With that being said, I feel truly sorry for the fifth grader. Under no circumstances should a child that young be corrupted with such actions. I am sure that she will have a long road ahead of her.
As for many other rape cases, I am not trying to sound like a jerk, but young girls, and sometimes guys, put themselves into situations in which they leave themselves vulnerable. I do understand that there are situations that people find themselves in, meaning that they do not put themselves in, and still get raped. It is truly unfortunate. Some do, however, put themselves in the situation.... Whether it is for attention, or a good time, that time gets out of hand and someone unfortunately gets hurt. I am in no way, shape, or form implying that rape is in any way okay. However, if you are too young to make the responsible and mature decision to keep yourself out of the situation at a party, then you are not mature or responsible enough to drink or to be doing various other acts.
i can't even read this whole thing, it makes me sick to my stomach. seriously.
it's not even just that it happens. i know it does, i've had bad experiences myself...but that's the point they're BAD experiences. stuff like this scars people. i know a lot of young people are very desensitized, but *sigh...i don't even know what else to say...