So, I had just gotten out of work and I went to the gas station to get some gas and an energy drink for my boyfriend. So I went to his work (He is a manager at Arvy's) and give him his drink and I ask for food.
He starts off the convo. with "I have bad news" he is being tranferred to a different Arby's about 20 minutes away. Well it wouldnt be so bad if they didint close at 11. Joe's store now closes at 10 and he gets to my house about 11 after cleaning and doing his paperwork. Well then from 11-12 we hang out then he goe home because I have school in the morning.
Well since he is travelling to this new store he will get out at 12 and reach home about 12:30 so there is no way I would see him.
This upsets me because he only has 2 days off. We have been dating 2 and a half years and I love him to death. Ever since we dated I always saw him every day. Now I will go to seeing him 7 days a week to just 2. I am so upset.
The thing that hurts me the worst is that I asked him if he cares and he didint really answer. I want him to stand up for himself and tell them he dosent want to leave the store and wants to stay here because when he applied for the job he specifically said he did not want to work "at ANY other store"
I love him but I dont know what I would do if I could only see him 2 days a week. Am I overreacting,
Oh wait and most important I was told their were major sluts and girls that wouldn't mind taking him away from me...
help???
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Distance does wonder to a relationship.
"You are narrow-minded because you disagree with me."
girl, i don't know all the details, but i do know this, if he really loves you like you love him, he won't screw your relationship up. i've been w/my bf for almost 2 years now and we've had our ups and downs, but i've found what i said to be true about any one who truly cares about you. just give it time and maybe he'll find a better job closer to you. in the mean time, don't give up on him yet.
jf07
...how you feel about the situation. This is a big change and talking it out is a very important step. I'm sure that you can find a solution that both of you will feel content with.