This is always a thing that people have many opinons on. A lot of people feel like that if you aren't a certain age and you love someone it's not true love. Then there are people who believe that true love can happen at any age(not like at age 10). What do you think about it?
I think that you know whenever you're really in love with another person. And I feel like if you're mature and you have these feelings, then it's possible for it to be love. It really bothers me when people(my parents) try to tell me that I'm not really in love, or they try like making jokes about it when I talk to them about my boyfriend. I'm not really young tho. I'll be 18 in a couple months, and I've always been told that I'm very mature for my age. So I've never ran around using the word 'love' unless I really mean it. And I feel like this is the first time I've ever really been in love with someone. I hate when they say stuff when they don't think I'm serious about this. I really am serious about my relationship with my boyfriend. I am very mature about the whole thing. Well at least I try to be. I hate whenever anyone thinks I'm not serious. I've been dating him for almost 9 months and we have never broken up. Another thing about love at a young age, a lot of teens feel that it's love if you have sex with the person, or adults don't think it's love unless you have sex with them. I agree with neither. I'm still a virgin and I plan on staying this way until I'm engaged. I do think that sex is a way to show you love someone, but it doesn't mean you love them because you do it, or that you only do it because you love them. There are many ways to show a person you love them, I just chose to do it without having sex. I know that I am in love, and this is the first time in my life.
I do believe that you can be in love and still be under 18. I don't really feel like age should matter. If both of you are feeling the same way, and it doesn't go away after a long period of time, then I do feel like it's true love. There are other reasons to prove this also. But this is just all my opinon, and a lot of people might agree with me, and many might not. I just don't like when people put an age on love. Love isn't determined by age, its determined by how you feel for another person and how much trust you put into them.
Feel free to leave your feelings on this subject. Thanks.
True love at a young age; Is it possible?
By reneex061 - Posted on November 12th, 2007
I think that true love can happen at a young age because when I was in grammar school in 8th grade, I went to my first dance and danced with two boys; after that Evening, one of the boys and I were in love with each other, even though he kept denying it.
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I fall in love. And I'm young. But my value of love maybe different from other kids my age. It's definitely possible to be in love or find true love at such a young age. If I see younger generation though, I'd probably be very skeptical about their "love" though. lol I don't know why that is either...
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I think that it's possible to fall in love at a young age. I'm 16 and I know for a fact that I have been in love, and I feel that I am falling in love again. It's a feeling/emotion and emotions don't have an age limit to them. Anger is an emotion... Do you have to be a certain age to get angry? Infants get angry daily... So I don't understand why people don't believe you can fall in love as a teenager.
I also agree with your viewpoint of older people telling you you're wrong. The same happened to me and I can't stand it! Who's to tell you how you feel, you know? The same with the sex subject... Sex does NOT mean love. If it did, then there wouldn't be such a thing as hooking up or one night stands. And just because you're in love doesn't make you obligated to having sex either. You're right completely... and I agree with you 100%.
anything is possible,
I think any person of any age can fall in love, but I think it is easier to confuse obsession or lust with love at a younger age. As you become older, it becomes easier to tell the difference.
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It is completely possible. People just say its not because most younger people aren't mature enough to feel that kind of love. I have always been very mature for my age and me and my boyfriend got together when we were 12 and fell madly in love with eachother. We have been togetherfor almost 3 years and I could not imagine not being with him.
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What you experience now is “bliss” I can easily figure this out when reading what you have brought inside this platform.
The reason why you are experiencing this bliss is because apparently there is no fear of losing within the experience you live.
You are absolutely right when saying age does not apply to the effect or essence of love!
Sex is of no importance to experience what you feel now!
Believe me when I tell you, what you experience now is true love!
Over the course of your life this experience will be challenged because of a few reasons, first because you are the only one who is experiencing this love the way you do.
The reason why you feel the way you do is because of your “lucky” partner who is triggering this emotion inside of your heart. Meaning that he is actually they key reason for this experience to manifest itself the way it does.
That’s the magic part which no one can decipher!
This magic contains some key elements which for now are like building blocks that are in a perfect match and harmony, other than that you wouldn’t feel the love the way you experience it now.
This magic is caused by chemistry, this takes place inside the pharmacy of your brain. It causes you to feel no specific emotion when wondering around others boys, whenever your love appears this pharmacy gets triggered and starts to prepare a mixture in order to give you this magic feel of love.
Apparently the pharmacy you carry inside is doing a great job, lol.
What your parents are trying to “express” is the fact that you have now become an addict! Lol.
You are addicted to your boyfriend in its fullest effect!
They know you are in love, but they also know you are addicted to the experience you are experiencing.
You are now standing in front and behind the same reflection of a mirror, that’s why you are experiencing “bliss”!
Enjoy every second of what you are experiencing now, for no one but you alone can or will ever know what is taking place in your heart!
Love is eternal within the heart, to keep in mind to reflect it upon yourself only, will bring you all the love the way you are fully experiencing it now!
Love is not to be understood by no one other but yourself, when it becomes explained it becomes affected!
Enjoy it in all of its forms during the ride of your life, just keep in mind and your mouth shut!
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i agree that love doesnt have an age because ok for starters i've been with my boyfriend since i was 14 and i am currently 17 and i am certainly possitive that he is my true love and the one for me cause i can totally be myself around him and talk about any situation that i may be facing and he is my other half and complets me and just point blank i love him and i understand on the part when you said that you hate that people try to tell you what you feeling isnt real , i didnt like that either and i have made it very clear for them cause their not inside of you feeling your every thoughts or motions so as long as you feel that its love dont let others tell you different just keep your head up high and remember that the only thing that matters is what you are sure about that you completly love and respect and trust your partner ... their isnt a block of cement or a book of rules that says age has an age cause its all about being mature and aware of your feelings and not confusing it ...
i hope your relationship keeps going great and dont listen to people who dont know what you feel !!!
I totally agree with you. I'm currently in a serious relationship and I'm 18 years old. I think that love can be found by anyone at any age. Love is a feeling you adopt when you find yourself staring at someone and you don't know why, when you go home and you can't stop questioning yourself "who is he/she?" "why am I so obsessed with this person?"
I would do anything for my girlfriend, the love I have in me is stronger than anything in this world. I can't see a life without her, I depend on her more than oxygen.
I wish I could just freeze time and live with this happy emotion for eternity.
Sadly that isn't possible, so I will have to fight against everything that comes between us.
I think everyone believes at love at any age, it's the people who can't find love, who question themselves such thing. I really wish everyone could feel love and die with that feeling. I think it's rather sad and confusing how people can be so in love and it suddenly all fades away...it's like something was missing but you only noticed after a long period. You have to be a strong person in this world, to handle all these emotions of love, hate, jealousy and so on. And with the parents comment, I agree as well. I think it's rather disrespecful for a parent to question their child's emotions. I mean just because they're older it doesn't mean they can feel it better than a young person? The only difference is, that most elderly people have had more experiences and have gone through love several times and want to tell their children that it's not true love, bla bla bla... but they don't realise that they have to let them go through it to realise and tell the difference between all these emotions. If it wasn't true love then they will have to get over it and learn from it. I think that in love, it's what you put into it, the result you get. If you feel like that person is "the one" then you have to fight for a true, long-lasting love relationship. And most important, NEVER get into a routine, always give that person the feeling that you love them more than everything in this world.
I wish all you lovers good luck in life!
The only reason I think really young people can't be sure is because we are still learning about who we are and who we will become. Once this is figured out, we will know how we relate to others. Then we can be in love. (I'm only a few months older than you, not quite 18, but I'm counting days so this is a perspective from someone close to your age)
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