Sexually, socially, morally, and personally multidynamic is the power of fellatio. To the majority of men, "brain" is a no-brainer. The issue is far more advanced when it comes to women, and their all-powerful proclamation of "to suck or not to suck". How can something that is able to make a woman feel sexy, also have the ability to make her feel slutty?
Because fellatio is a one-sided sexual activity, the pleasure and enjoyment is primarily directed at the receiving end, making the quality of the entire experience specifically dependent on the giver. "Good head" can be a compliment, or an insult disguised as a compliment. It can be meant to either uplift or downgrade. Oral sex is personal, private, and above all, intimate. Women give head and it's a fact of life. Oral sex is a perfectly normal form of sexual expression. The "gotcha" lies within its nature and subsequent "publicity". However, whether giving it in the confines of a monogamous relationship, or honing one's skills to the point of "making Sprite cans disappear in your mouth", fellatio will almost always have a negative connotation.
Sometimes regarded as unsanitary, unnatural, or immoral, everyone has their two cents about head. Males rarely hesitate to disclose the slobbery details, but a woman who decides to divulge the info is Karinne Steffans. Females can't seem to find the in-between; they're either tight-lipped (yet loose-mouthed) girls scared of a "reputation", or bad bitches who don't give a fuck about exploiting their sexualities. Head can fuck with your head. It can make you a hoe, or it can also liberate you from the shackles of being labeled a hoe. A woman who coolly admits to, but does not brag about being a fellatiologist, is a Superwoman - not a Superhead.
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If people would just not discuss intimate things in public and who does what and whatnot, the entire problem of feeling 'slutty' and such could be avoided.
I think it's quite the opposite. If everyone were honest about their sex lives, it wouldn't be such a big deal.
--Mike