Tantric Sex Routine
By sara315 - Posted on February 21st, 2007
Tagged: Education
• Shared responsibility
One of the points of the following exercise is to merge your own sense of identity and feelings with those of your partner's so that eventually it is as though you have become one. The first part of the exercise echoes the "touch for pleasure's sake" principle. But the next part moves on to something altogether more profound; something capable of touching the spirit as well as the body.
Try this with your partner (hetero, homo, trans...) over a long weekend.
1) Spend the first day going for walks, getting to know each other, and relaxing together.
2) On the second day spend the morning lightly stroking and caressing one another's naked bodies (no intercourse). Eat a light lunch, then repeat the stroking in the afternoon - but this time, imagine that every touch you are bestowing on your partner can be felt by you.
3) On the third day stroke each other all over and continue to feel you partners strokes as if they were yours. After an hour, move onto (if applicable) inserting the penis in the vagina. Don't launch into fully fledged intercourse but lie there peacefully until his erection has subsided. In the afternoon, repeat the morning's exercise again for about an hour - but then go for a long , slow intercourse in which the man (if applicable) holds back until his partner reaches orgasm.
Very bold post. I commend you.
Really? Cause I'm thinking...not so much...
Way to put "it" out there!!!
I, too, commend you. Rarely to people have enough nerve to talk about sex on sites such as this. Nice to see not everyone is so focused on politics. Way to go!
Hm... I sense a "long weekend" with my boyfriend comming on...
I thought that was what most people did.. I never thought about just stroking.... It can get boring, but to lie there with your partner is pretty nice
Its not my job to kill you....
Nice change of pace.
I love your boldness and straight-forwardness.
-Danielle-
I don't think this kind of information is really necessary to our survival and development as a species. In other words, I not only disagree, but I abhor writings reeking of inconsequence.
It would be interesting if you could connect this experience to positive changes in our own and other's lives.
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Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities.
-Voltaire
I believe this kind of information is necessary to our survival and development as a species. I believe that in order to have a fulfilling and whole relationship with somebody this has to be a part of it. Relationships have an impact, play a part in shaping who we are and what we become. They have an affect on every level of our life.