Seriously, why do you feel the need to rub my thigh?
People are always touching me. Why do people think that this is ok? I don't understand this. I think people are overstepping their bounds. The excuse, "Oh, but he's gay." So? I don't care. I don't want him touching me and the way he was touching me, certainly did not convince me that he's gay.
I'm convinced this is the way that rumors get started about so and so being easy or a slut. I don't appreciate these people touching me.
About a month or so ago some guy that happens to hate me decided to spread a rumor that I'm easy and that was, you know, fun and all. Anyway, after a while I think people really began to believe this and I did not take too kindly to the reactions. Especially the increased number of hands I found frequently placed on my thigh. I especially loved the comments when I told horny sex-starved boys to quit touching me. Nothing like being told it doesn't matter because you're a slut anyway and everyone knows it. Oh what a wonderful feeling.
So why do people think it's ok? Even if there is a rumor about you or even if it's true, shouldn't you still command some respect? Aren't you still worthy of that little bubble of personal space?
I do not like to be touched either. But people feel like they have to. Especially when they talk to you.
Number one I read your blog because it was different than everyone elses. Two even though the topic of the week is in the corner that is for people who can not think of anything else. My best advice to you and everyone is if you can't think of anything else then don't write at all, just comment on people's blogs. Don't go and comment on my blog after you have only been a member for 2 hours about how things are on the site. You can do that after you have been on here awhile and understand how this blogging works. But with that aside Thanks for a new idea!
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http://www.progressiveu.org/032913-lupus-uncureable-wait-what
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For some reason, people get this conception that I like being touched. Seriously. People want to hug me and touch my shoulder and stuff when they talk to me and see me, but I am not okay with that. There are very few people who I would allow to touch me had I my own choice.
Unfortunately, we live in a very tactile society where people feel the need to touch constantly, and it's even worse when I go to raves... seriously. One guy I met at a rave was quite high and for some reason ended up literally STALKING me at every rave I went to after that, and even went so far as to drive along side me as I walked to work one day.
There are definitely restrictions on who should be allowed to invade your "bubble" of personal space, and I think we should all be able to define that for ourselves.
* Barbara-Michelle
drifter you tell me that if I can't think of anything at all then to go comment on other people's blogs (which is what I was trying to do by the bye) and then you tell me that my opinions are wrong just because I haven't been on the site before today? that's stupid ... it's not as if you can't think until you come on this site, and I was commenting in a generalistic sort of way, not really claiming that I knew all the ins and outs of the site ... glad you agree with me about people being a bit to handsy
I got really pissed off at what you said earlier. Don't ask me why. I hardly ever get pissed off. I was trying to say you will see my point after you have been on here for awhile I just thought to make a judgement like that after 2 hours of being on the site was a bit ignorant. But I am sorry for going off on you like that. I really am here to help people and I am always nice..could be because I am Pmsing. Which I am sure you really don't care to hear.lol but yeah. Alot of people will post about the same thing often and it starts to really get annoying. Just wait you will notice it. Thats all I was trying to say!
But yeah I don't like when people talk to you and they feel the overwhelming need to touch you on the shoulder. Normally I will give them dirty looks and they get the point. I don't like to be touched at all be strange people or really anyone. I will get hugs from my dad and boyfriend but other people...please stay away and control your urge to touch me!
I am here to inform and help:
http://www.progressiveu.org/032913-lupus-uncureable-wait-what
Love comments? I do too!