I have a best friend who i have known since 7th grade. I am currently a senior in high school. We were in seperateable for 2 years straight. There was no me without her and no her without me. We did everything together. We even said that we must have been twin seperated at birth since our birthdays were merely 12 hours apart in birth. We considered eachother as sisters, Until those days came. Everytime I found a guy, they would somehow meet her. And it seemed that she had a way of taking each and every one from me. I was still naive to what she was so i didn't pay attention to it until she started taking the ones i loved. She took that first man and i flipped. She had sex with him while me and him were still dating. Now, would you honostly consider that miserable? From your own 'sister' none-the-less? But yet, I didn't stop being best friends with her. Every time she got in a relationship though, she would ignore me completely, and many times I would never meet the guy but I was sure for her to meet my men for 'approval'. She was my best friend and my life so i was still yet.....naive.
She got in an 11 month relationship with a man named, Andrew, and I thought they were perfect. But 2 months in, she said she had sex with another man and i had to keep it a secret. Two weeks later she came to me with yet another sex story with another man. It continued through the entire relationship, but, being a best friend as i am, i kept my mouth shut. I saw her to be a true.....'slut'.
We stopped talking for months and i proclaimed that i hated her guts. But after she took another man i loved. I slowly started talking to her again and the man that i loved more than anything that she had once taken. Its been two months since i had seen him and i finally went on a date with him just as friends. I knew that he had changed from the 'jerk' that he once was and i knew that if i told him that i loved him he would be faithful. But to that once best friend, she disagreed. I had a brief talk with her about the man i love. She told me that i shouldn't talk to him because he is still the jerk he always had been because he was still trying to get in her pants. I knew this to be false. She shouldn't even be talking to him in the first place. I have truely come to the conclusion that she deliberatly 'puts herself out there' to get guys to seem that they want her but it's really her that wants to rip away what other women have just because she can not have it and makes other women feel jelous.
So what happens now? Does the cycle truely ever end? She truely is the "Worst Best Friend"!
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I had a best friend similar to the one you are describing. I am not best friends with her and my life is so great now. She hooked my boyfriend and I up because they were friends and she constantly tried to break us up through the whole relationship( and another relationship I was in). We are still together and have been for 3 years. I understand your attachment to her and I was attached to my best friend I had been friends with her since I was in 4th grade all the way up until I was a senior in highschool ( 9 years). But you really need to say screw her and get rid of her honestly. She is doing this because she is jealous of you in some way. She wants to feel like she can turn any guy on and take everyone away from you. If you keep being friends with her this will be a never ending story. Please take my advise seriously I know it hurts to hear it but I just am going on what happened to me and am suggesting what would be best for you. She really isn't a "best friend"
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Yea i deffiantely have stopped talking to her. Every now and then we speak but its merely about small things but nothing guy related or anything. We must talk every now and then since all of our friends are the same. It would be tough not to. But its not too often me and her are seen even in the same room.
if you havent realized she is not your friend at all. She has no respect for you what so ever, i really dont understnd how you can be in the same room with her. i woudlnt even go ater my best friend ex, i am not even talking bout a bf. And the fact that she did it to you way more times then once should tell you something. i ont understand how you can be so naive. i am not trying to be mean or anything but where is your self respect? You need to dump her and bnever talk to her again.
Why do you like her so much as a friend anyways?