I don't know what it is, but OH MY GOD I've been running across a bunch of stupid females. When I say stupid, I don't mean DUMMY-duh! stupid. More in a sense of how they deal with lil boys.
I don't have enough finger or toes to count how many times a day I get complained to by a bunch of girls a day, about how SOME boy is messin something up, ranging between cheating, to just being an idiot. And yea, the first few times, I felt a lil sympathy. But let me tell yall a lil quote: "Fool me once, Shame on you, Fool me twice, Shame on me". STOP LETTIN HIM GET AWAY WITH IT. If you CONTINUOUSLY let him do you like that, and never put your foot down, WHY WOULD HE STOP? I know if I was with a boy, and (not saying I would) I was continuously cheating on him, and treating him like crap, and he STILL was lettin me stay at his crib, eatin up his food, and all that, then dang, I'm gonna have my cake and eat it too, ya dig. If he can get his outside gurl, do whatever he wanna do, and knows that he still got all his gurl waitin on him at the crib, im sorry, he is most definately NOT gonna give that up. If you scared to put your foot down cuz you dont wanna lose him, think about it like this, how much is he really yours anyway? Being in love, or even just a regular relationship, you shouldnt have to compromise yourself or your values, or your happiness to "keep someone"...get rid of that lil boy
What do yall feel about these situations?!
It's pretty common that young girls are quick to forgive because they don't want to get rid of the security they feel with that guy. It's hard for them to acknowledge that the guy is obviously not worthy of her love and commitment because she probably doesn't want to be alone and finds more rights with the relationship than wrongs.
But I do agree, it can be a little annoying to see how lenient some girls are.